I was just wondering today, how do people have sex with their fat mates?

[Fonz]

As corny as this sounds, maybe they just love each other?

Still, my wife could be plump and I would still love her.

But a wife that lets herself become obese needs to do something about it.

After all, physical attraction is part of love.

And when I mean obese I mean 100+lbs extra. 33% of the US population.

Fonz

 

[biteme]

Ive noticed a few things from females....

1. If they see you with a fat chick, they may think that you arent all about looks and that makes you look like a better person on the inside..Eventually girls choose that type of person over a meat head that just looks out for thin bimbos...

2. Girls are very competative, sometimes more so than guys. If they see you with a fat chick, they'll want a piece of that. Many times they sit there and wonder what he sees in her. Its enough to atleast get the thin girls attention. Girls are perceptive, a hot thin girl who takes care of herself all too much will take notice when a guy chooses to talk to an overweight girl instead of Ms. Vain....

You can have all those overweight women, just leave the thin ones for me. Being fat is a decision. Similar to smoking.

 

[anabolicmd]

You can have all those overweight women, just leave the thin ones for me. Being fat is a decision. Similar to smoking.

Most fat folks have severe carb addictions.

 

[biteme]

Every monday morning where I work, donuts are delivered for the employees. These people complain about being fat, I overhear their conversations. They stuff their faces with donuts and wonder why they are fat. Don't complain, get off your fat ass and do something about it. I'm out of here, I can't let this body go to waste, I'm gonna share tonight.

 

[KA-BAR]

Ever see that movie shallow hal?

 

[biteme]

You are completey totally obsessed with your body as well as the bodies you rub up against. You as HiIntensity will lose your minds when and if you lose your lean body or he loses his looks.


Karma has a way of teaching you something and karma may just teach you that if your looks or someone else's is all that makes them than there's not much to you as your looks ae something that will change as you age and there's very little you can do about it.


God forbid something in your life should prevent from keeping yourself trim or your future spouse.

O.K. girl, b4 I walk out this door, I just want to say that by looking at your body, it appears that you are obsessed also.

 

[velvett]

O.K. girl, b4 I walk out this door, I just want to say that by looking at your body, it appears that you are obsessed also.

I was also in a bad car wreck and gained some 25 pounds many years ago - I just wanted to die I felt so bad about myself - that's a place I'd rather not revisit.

You'd have to really know me to realize in what way I am vain and in what ways I'm just a simple girl.

 

[Fonz]

I was also in a bad car wreck and gained some 25 pounds many years ago - I just wanted to die I felt so bad about myself - that's a place I'd rather not revisit.

You'd have to really know me to realize in what way I am vain and in what ways I'm just a simple girl.

Velvett, everybody has their imperfections.

Vanity, arrogance, gluttony...its all part of the human equation.

As long as you're IN TUNE with yourself, and your environment, and are happy.....then whats the problem?

None becomes apparent to me.

If someone plays on their looks to be popular...great. Thats HIS personality.

Thats what makes life so interesting. Its a veritable panoply of different personalities.

Honestly, if it came right down to it.....I'd rather be fat or ugly than in constant pain.

Pain...(physical) is the worst.

Fonz

 

[Lao Tzu]

mental pain is worse than physical pain. At least physical pain can be treated with drugs or nerve implants.

 

[velvett]

Vanity, arrogance, gluttony...its all part of the human equation.

As long as you're IN TUNE with yourself, and your environment, and are happy.....then whats the problem?

None becomes apparent to me.

If someone plays on their looks to be popular...great. Thats HIS personality.

While I agree with you, I just happen to feel that some of these issues go beyond the character of the person and do effect those around or in contact with said person to such a degree that the quality of life of this person is significantly less.

Again, merely an opinion not a disagreement.