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[guards]

How it has gotten even worse

I finally started to try the sex thing tonight....started, got good feedback, started getting everything in order......than the captain didn't want to stand at attention!!!!!

WTF??!! I think it was because i was so nervous....i REALLY don't want to fuck this up!! Ever meet someone that makes you feel like child? She's it....i hope i haven't ruined it for myself


This sucks....i don't know what to do

 

[naturally anabolic]

you have yourself so nervous that you made your capt nervous....don't worry about it....if you need to take something the first time, grab a viagra or a cialis....

you have not ruined anything guards...so relax and it will come..

or cum as the case may be....

 

[Spectre]

Guards, get ahold of yourself bud. Take it easy let things 'happen', they always do.

Knock off the tren too, test suspension and prop are your friends!

 

[guards]

Guards, get ahold of yourself bud. Take it easy let things 'happen', they always do.

Knock off the tren too, test suspension and prop are your friends!

It's funny that you mention that since i am in week 8 of a fina/prop cycle.


Thanks for all the responses guys

 

[Bikini Mod]

How it has gotten even worse

I finally started to try the sex thing tonight....started, got good feedback, started getting everything in order......than the captain didn't want to stand at attention!!!!!

WTF??!! I think it was because i was so nervous....i REALLY don't want to fuck this up!! Ever meet someone that makes you feel like child? She's it....i hope i haven't ruined it for myself


This sucks....i don't know what to do

You won't be the first man that this has ever happened to and you won't be the last. Just relax and let it happen.

This happened to a man that I was with. He was considerably older than you and very experienced, yet he STILL got very nervous with me. The first few times we were together it was very awkward. Knowing what I know now, we should've just NOT done it. Yes, after the first two times it got WAY better to the point of "DAYYYYYUM!", but if I had known then what I know now, we just would not have had sex. Heavy petting maybe and called it a night.

I guess that I had not expected this. It's funny because we as women are socialized to believe that men are supposed to be very sexually aggresive or they are gay or inept in some other way. Truth is, the men who are NOT sexually aggressive are the ones that are best lovers.

 

[chiba102]

You sound like a REAL catch.

Why "yes" I am.....Thank you for noticing.

 

[guards]

You won't be the first man that this has ever happened to and you won't be the last. Just relax and let it happen.

This happened to a man that I was with. He was considerably older than you and very experienced, yet he STILL got very nervous with me. The first few times we were together it was very awkward. Knowing what I know now, we should've just NOT done it. Yes, after the first two times it got WAY better to the point of "DAYYYYYUM!", but if I had known then what I know now, we just would not have had sex. Heavy petting maybe and called it a night.

I guess that I had not expected this. It's funny because we as women are socialized to believe that men are supposed to be very sexually aggresive or they are gay or inept in some other way. Truth is, the men who are NOT sexually aggressive are the ones that are best lovers.

I'm almost 29 and i feel like i am 16...this is terrible. I think it has to do with the fact that i actually, believe it or not, care about this girl. Sadly enough, i believe that if i didn't care i wouldn't have any problem functioning....GOD that sounds bad.

It's funny that if a woman says that she wants to wait to have sex, that's alright. Yet, if a man were to say the same thing, he's labled a fag or something.

GGGRRRRRRRRRRR.....I'm gonna go jerk off and wallow in my misery.

 

[Friscochick]

I'm almost 29 and i feel like i am 16...this is terrible. I think it has to do with the fact that i actually, believe it or not, care about this girl. Sadly enough, i believe that if i didn't care i wouldn't have any problem functioning....GOD that sounds bad.

It's funny that if a woman says that she wants to wait to have sex, that's alright. Yet, if a man were to say the same thing, he's labled a fag or something.

GGGRRRRRRRRRRR.....I'm gonna go jerk off and wallow in my misery.

lol! ohh stop! at least you found someone, and it is the most wonderful feling to be all giddy and school boy/girlish... take it slow, have fun.. everything will fall into place soon enough hun..
if she's as special as you say, then why rush?? be patient and congradulations!!!

 

[Bikini Mod]

Believe it or not I COMPLETELY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE SAYING!!!

This has only happened to me once. The guy was 41 and VERY EXPERIENCED! He did NOT want to have sex when we did. I all but had to rape him after a loooooooong heavy petting session.

He kept saying that he wanted it to be special between us when we DID have sex. He did not force the issue AT ALL. My answer was, "Darlin' it has been over 6 months since I have had sex, trust me when I tell you IT WILL BE SPECIAL!" LOL And I must say that though the foreplay was INCREDIBLE the sex left a lot to be desired. As a matter of fact it was so awkward that I honestly thought that it was a shame that this guy sucked so badly in the sack... But, as the relationship progressed and we continued and became more comfortable - that obviously changed. It was never like that lover I had before, BUT STILL VERY SWEET.

Take your time and don't rush. When the time is right, you will know and it WILL BE AWESOME.

Trust me. Otherwise you run the risk of things not being the way you would hope. Just chill and enjoy each other's company.

 

[WIDELAT]

ITS NOT SOMETHING THAT IS TALKED ABOUT IT JUST HAPPENS IN THE HEAT OF PASSION IF SHE WANTS TO BELIVE ME IT WILL HAPPEN NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK.