I had this question filtered

[treilin]

O.k.... I had this question filtered but wanted to ask a question to you all. If you were working out at your gym and noticed someone 'HOT' I mean you are attracted to this person and you can tell the attraction is on both sides. You have seen this person come to and from the gym alone. I know there is the whole gym etiquette about not picking people up at the gym.... How would you comfront a person like this without it being really awkward? Would you go up to them? Would you wait till they are done working out? Would you ask them for their opinion on a certain exercise? Would you do nothing about it? Would you just smile and wait for them to approach you? What's your viewpoint on this?

 

[The Shadow]

ask if he wants to make babies.....







short of that...

asking to work in might get you in the door

 

[treilin]

There will be NO babies!!! Not any time in the near future anyway!
I have already worked in with him twice before...

 

[The Shadow]

There will be NO babies!!! Not any time in the near future anyway!
I have already worked in with him twice before...

then STFU and get with it....

 

[treilin]

then STFU and get with it....

HA HA HA Get with what? Just walk up to him and say "Hey baby let's go out?" That sounds soooo stupid. lol

 

[The Shadow]

HA HA HA Get with what? Just walk up to him and say "Hey baby let's go out?" That sounds soooo stupid. lol

Lets see:


if I were said hot dude....

you have worked in with me...


.....hmm....what has he said int he way of flirting?

 

[Sassy69]

Just start talkin to the guy. If you want to be really direct about it you can just beat him over the head w/ a 30 lb dumbbell and drag him out unconscious.

 

[velvett]

HA HA HA Get with what? Just walk up to him and say "Hey baby let's go out?" That sounds soooo stupid. lol

I've done that.
He worked in a clothing store and he asked me if I needed help, so I said yes and when he asked how he could help, I asked him to meet me for dinner.

He said yes.

Nice guy, he was from VA.

If you can work it out that you're leaving at the same time, ask him very casually as you're walking out the door.

 

[treilin]

Just start talkin to the guy. If you want to be really direct about it you can just beat him over the head w/ a 30 lb dumbbell and drag him out unconscious.

Yeah sorta like a caveman, "You come home with me..." dragging him by hair.. although he has no hair..

 

[treilin]

Lets see:


if I were said hot dude....

you have worked in with me...


.....hmm....what has he said int he way of flirting?

I'm REALLY good at reading body language. The first time I saw him we were walking toward the same machine and he said "Do you want to work-out together?" I was like,"Sure." Of course... I always wear headphones so no conversation really just how much weight to add on. Wasn't really expecting to see someone I liked at the gym. The following week it happened again on a different machine. I said some funny comment because he laughed and then he kinda smirked and went downstairs. Then today he walked by me and smiled, and I caught him twice staring at me in the mirror and he looked immediately away. So it's more in the body language. I would think he thinks the same thing about picking people up at the gym....