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treilin

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O.k.... I had this question filtered but wanted to ask a question to you all. If you were working out at your gym and noticed someone 'HOT' I mean you are attracted to this person and you can tell the attraction is on both sides. You have seen this person come to and from the gym alone. I know there is the whole gym etiquette about not picking people up at the gym.... How would you comfront a person like this without it being really awkward? Would you go up to them? Would you wait till they are done working out? Would you ask them for their opinion on a certain exercise? Would you do nothing about it? Would you just smile and wait for them to approach you? What's your viewpoint on this?
 
ask if he wants to make babies.....







short of that...

asking to work in might get you in the door
 
treilin said:
:) HA HA HA Get with what? Just walk up to him and say "Hey baby let's go out?" That sounds soooo stupid. lol
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Lets see:


if I were said hot dude....

you have worked in with me...


.....hmm....what has he said int he way of flirting?
 
Just start talkin to the guy. If you want to be really direct about it you can just beat him over the head w/ a 30 lb dumbbell and drag him out unconscious.
 
treilin said:
:) HA HA HA Get with what? Just walk up to him and say "Hey baby let's go out?" That sounds soooo stupid. lol
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I've done that.
He worked in a clothing store and he asked me if I needed help, so I said yes and when he asked how he could help, I asked him to meet me for dinner.

He said yes.

Nice guy, he was from VA.

If you can work it out that you're leaving at the same time, ask him very casually as you're walking out the door.
 
Sassy69 said:
Just start talkin to the guy. If you want to be really direct about it you can just beat him over the head w/ a 30 lb dumbbell and drag him out unconscious.
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Yeah sorta like a caveman, "You come home with me..." dragging him by hair.. although he has no hair..
 
The Shadow said:
Lets see:


if I were said hot dude....

you have worked in with me...


.....hmm....what has he said int he way of flirting?
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I'm REALLY good at reading body language. The first time I saw him we were walking toward the same machine and he said "Do you want to work-out together?" I was like,"Sure." Of course... I always wear headphones so no conversation really just how much weight to add on. Wasn't really expecting to see someone I liked at the gym. The following week it happened again on a different machine. I said some funny comment because he laughed and then he kinda smirked and went downstairs. Then today he walked by me and smiled, and I caught him twice staring at me in the mirror and he looked immediately away. So it's more in the body language. I would think he thinks the same thing about picking people up at the gym....
 
treilin said:
Yeah sorta like a caveman, "You come home with me..." dragging him by hair.. although he has no hair..
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Then get one of those suction cup thingies and drag by that.
 
velvett said:
I've done that.
He worked in a clothing store and he asked me if I needed help, so I said yes and when he asked how he could help, I asked him to meet me for dinner.

He said yes.

Nice guy, he was from VA.

If you can work it out that you're leaving at the same time, ask him very casually as you're walking out the door.
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Maybe I'll try that pick-up line I like taht... LAthough I hate things that are unnatural...
Yeah it was working that way today with leaving at the same time... but he had to stop and buy a bottle of water at the overpriced gym store as I walked out the front door... Errrr
 
treilin said:
Maybe I'll try that pick-up line I like taht... LAthough I hate things that are unnatural...
Yeah it was working that way today with leaving at the same time... but he had to stop and buy a bottle of water at the overpriced gym store as I walked out the front door... Errrr
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Well, next time you might have adjust your sneaker laces or something.
 
velvett said:
Well, next time you might have adjust your sneaker laces or something.
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if he stares at your ass....you are in


while you are there...try the GGGRRRRRRRR
 
The Shadow said:
if he stares at your ass....you are in


while you are there...try the GGGRRRRRRRR
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GrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrOOF!

Worked for Shadow.














And don't forget the hippy hippy shake.




j/k
 
The Shadow said:
if he stares at your ass....you are in


while you are there...try the GGGRRRRRRRR
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HA ha ha get on my forearms and scream doggy style... Yeah I think that will win the wrong guys over.... EyeYyeYye
Thanks for the help Shadow... Appreciate it, lol
 
Sassy69 said:
Then get one of those suction cup thingies and drag by that.
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:lmao:
 
Sassy69 said:
Just start talkin to the guy. If you want to be really direct about it you can just beat him over the head w/ a 30 lb dumbbell and drag him out unconscious.
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:FRlol:

Tre - you have an icredible bod & you know what your doing in the gym. He's probably nervous around you. Just be friendly & funny & he'll probably ask you out. - or since you both do the same exercises all th time, just ask him if he wants to WO sometime
 
<sigh>

ok, why do ladies have to make it such an encounter? the stars have to line up and things have to fall into place...

If you are into him: Probe.
Its unsettling to just walk up and strike up a conversation, yes. But...you have the fact that you worked out together briefly, twice going for you. you know some things about him. There should be no problem striking up a conversation. You have somewhat of a "history". You've broken the ice, so to speak. Don't create a roadblock for yourself because he didnt pursue you. You think he's hot, so you don't push. You ASSUME he may be taken. Guess what....he's thinking the same thing. All too many times we put up a false wall of "he probably/she probably's", and it does absolutely no good.

JUST GO FOR IT! :)

just some insight into a guy's mind: we don't read signals, dont spend much time on interpreting hints. we think logically (2+2=4) not emotionally (2+2=well...)
All too often we misread friendliness for interest, so if you are acting nonchalent and saying things that show interest...we might not notice. If you must...feel like you are leading this guy to water.
 
OK girly -- I met my husband at the gym...... in Spinning class...... I'd been going to Spinning for a couple of weeks & noticed him looking at me, but when I looked back, he looked away. See? One day after class, I was going to lift & he asked if I wanted to lift with him. See?? Then when we were done he asked what I was doing then & if I wanted to go across the street to the bar/restaurant & have a drink. I didn't have anything to change into -- I wore padded shorts for class, so I suggested we go out another day when I could bring something to change into. After that "date" he would wait for me in the parking lot & we'd walk in together & it just went from there. Now we've been married 3 years!!

Is there a bar/restaurant nearby?? Or a juice/coffee bar in the gym? Ask him if he wants to grab a drink/coffee/snack after the gym.......
 
jenscats5 said:
OK girly -- I met my husband at the gym...... in Spinning class...... I'd been going to Spinning for a couple of weeks & noticed him looking at me, but when I looked back, he looked away. See? One day after class, I was going to lift & he asked if I wanted to lift with him. See?? Then when we were done he asked what I was doing then & if I wanted to go across the street to the bar/restaurant & have a drink. I didn't have anything to change into -- I wore padded shorts for class, so I suggested we go out another day when I could bring something to change into. After that "date" he would wait for me in the parking lot & we'd walk in together & it just went from there. Now we've been married 3 years!!

Is there a bar/restaurant nearby?? Or a juice/coffee bar in the gym? Ask him if he wants to grab a drink/coffee/snack after the gym.......
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What's that saying again........."Those who workout together, stay together"?
 
Just flirt with him, and if he doesn't ask you out then he's either gay or married! :FRlol: Sounds like he sorta likes you anyway! :qt:
 
Thanks all for the advice. Quite funny actually... Since every guy I've ever dated I asked out. My dad has told me since I was 16 that I was intimidating to guys so they wouldn't talk to me. Ya know... every guy I asked out said the same thing to me... Wh the heck? It's a good thing I'm outgoing and friendly or else I think I would be a poor lonely soul the rest of my life :)
 
treilin said:
Thanks all for the advice. Quite funny actually... Since every guy I've ever dated I asked out. My dad has told me since I was 16 that I was intimidating to guys so they wouldn't talk to me. Ya know... every guy I asked out said the same thing to me... Wh the heck? It's a good thing I'm outgoing and friendly or else I think I would be a poor lonely soul the rest of my life :)
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Thats hot girly, be the aggressor :)
 
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