I am SO Tired of fucking my Loved one

[rnch]

bad bro material

 

[hardnosepbg]

First, we have been to 2 different counslers and they both told us that it seems we both work so much that we barely have time for ourselves, let alone each other. They weren't very positive about our time issue, but I have tried to make the most of my time with her. We have a 2 1/2 year old and a nice house together that I have busted my butt for. She is a 1 st grade teacher too by the way, and looks no were near in shape. She has no interest in getting in better shape either and this bothers me. In fact, she hates me going to the gym. Says I'm too arrogant now....confident attracts...arrogance= turn off....but in my opinion I have just become very confident in myself. I feel better about myself. I think she is just miserable and misery likes company. I'm tired of being that company though. I just want a happy, positive life....never knew it would be so hard to achieve. If I'd known that marrage was going to be like this I never would have done it, and would never do it again. Anyways, thanks for the advice and opinions.

 

[TC2]

Something doesn't make sense here. You guys have been together since you were about 18, you look better than ever and she's gaining weight but you clearly stated SHE is the one who isn't interested in you. Why do you think that is? Plus she's not taking care of herself ... sounds to me like you're s/o (wife/girlfriend) is short on time or energy, or unhappy about something. Either she's stressed, depressed, unhappy with life in general, or unhappy with you.

I gotta ask, while you're working out, going to clubs and flirting with younger women, while she's doing what? Staying home by herself?

Typical...It cant be because she's just a lazy ass bitch can it?? it MUST be somebody else's fault.

 

[TC2]

First, we have been to 2 different counslers and they both told us that it seems we both work so much that we barely have time for ourselves, let alone each other. They weren't very positive about our time issue, but I have tried to make the most of my time with her. We have a 2 1/2 year old and a nice house together that I have busted my butt for. She is a 1 st grade teacher too by the way, and looks no were near in shape. She has no interest in getting in better shape either and this bothers me. In fact, she hates me going to the gym. Says I'm too arrogant now....confident attracts...arrogance= turn off....but in my opinion I have just become very confident in myself. I feel better about myself. I think she is just miserable and misery likes company. I'm tired of being that company though. I just want a happy, positive life....never knew it would be so hard to achieve. If I'd known that marrage was going to be like this I never would have done it, and would never do it again. Anyways, thanks for the advice and opinions.

Bro I was once in your exact position and trust me,,,just end it. She's prabably is the typical american white woman isnt she??

Dont even bother...you can never make her happy no matter what you do and it will end up with you jumping through hoops to try to make her happy while she sits back on her ass and does nothing at all to try to make you happy.

 

[hardnosepbg]

Bro I was once in your exact position and trust me,,,just end it. She's prabably is the typical american white woman isnt she??

Dont even bother...you can never make her happy no matter what you do and it will end up with you jumping through hoops to try to make her happy while she sits back on her ass and does nothing at all to try to make you happy.

Bro, you said it. I feel like I am jumping through hoops. Let me give you a recent example. I turn 30 on 12-27....She doesn't get along with my best friend of 25 + years. I told her that I intend on going out and having a good time for my birthday with family and friends. She freaked out. Said she wasn't going anywhere that he was going. I told her that I never realized that MY birthday was about HER. My bad......guess I'm just a dick again. Since this conversation she has given me the silent treatment...won't even have a conversation with me. She has slept with me one time in the past 14 days, and i don't see any sex with her in my near future. What's a man to do?? She wants me to worship her........but the only person I will worship is the Lord my God. She makes me understand why people would want to shoot themselves.

 

[rnch]

ok....i take back my "bad bro material" comment

 

[TC2]

Bro, you said it. I feel like I am jumping through hoops. Let me give you a recent example. I turn 30 on 12-27....She doesn't get along with my best friend of 25 + years. I told her that I intend on going out and having a good time for my birthday with family and friends. She freaked out. Said she wasn't going anywhere that he was going. I told her that I never realized that MY birthday was about HER. My bad......guess I'm just a dick again. Since this conversation she has given me the silent treatment...won't even have a conversation with me. She has slept with me one time in the past 14 days, and i don't see any sex with her in my near future. What's a man to do?? She wants me to worship her........but the only person I will worship is the Lord my God. She makes me understand why people would want to shoot themselves.

Drop her on her ass and stay away from those selfish spoiled american white princesses and you're golden.

 

[Cutiebaby]

It is easy..Be a MAN
Watch a little porn to get happy then while fucking her think of the girl in the porn..

 

[blueta2]

Bro I was once in your exact position and trust me,,,just end it. She's prabably is the typical american white woman isnt she??

Dont even bother...you can never make her happy no matter what you do and it will end up with you jumping through hoops to try to make her happy while she sits back on her ass and does nothing at all to try to make you happy.

ummmmmmmm.....who's jumping through hoops here?!

http://www.elitefitness.com/forum/c...catholic-engaged-encounter-before-578827.html

 

[musclemom]

Typical...It cant be because she's just a lazy ass bitch can it?? it MUST be somebody else's fault.

TC, YOU are the bigoted one who says "White woman = Lazy fucking useless Bitch," not me. I'm not bigoted. What I've been pointing out is that what's being posted sounds like symptoms of something else overall being entirely fucked up.

There is NEVER one "All Right" and one "All Wrong" in this shit, ever, and I don't care whose fucked up relationship we're talking about. My first marriage was about as dysfunction as they come and even my ex, rotten SOB manipulative pathological liar child abuser that he was, wasn't ENTIRELY at fault in the situation.

If a relationship is fucked up, both parties have problems to face up to, that's the long and short of it. It's got nothing to do with white/black, there is no innocense and guilt here. If you're insistent on laying blame, laying it to the fact they married too g'damned young.