how to date...help!!!

[mshad]

ok ladies I am 24 and been single for only about 4months and am just starting to date!!! the problem is that I have never dated I was with my x for almost 6yrs and before that a guy for 3yrs and that is too long!! So I am not sure of any of the do's and don't and if there are even any! Going on my first official date on sat night and would love any tips or if I just need to be told to calm down and not worry that is fine too but any help would be better than the zero clue that I have now.

Thank you sooo much

Hanned5

 

[nycgirl]

First, relax.
Second, Take it day by day. See where it goes. Play it cool.
Third, Don't chase after him.

Summer is coming - have some fun!!! Perfect time to date, go out with your girlfriends, flirt, etc.

 

[*MissFit*]

haha welcome to my worlds..

I am happily known as cinderella.. for the mad dashes i amke to my door.. and im 29

 

[habitualhealth]

Hun, I wish I could say it's the best thing ever but....my rules:

1. don't date anyone who says they like to wear women's lingerie (i dont care how good he thinks he looks in them)
2. ID the guy...wanna make sure he's revealing his REAL age
3. if you're intent is to find longevity...keep your legs together until...well just do it....you'll know when the right time comes to get it on.
4. like girlie said above...dont chase after him
5. go buy "he's just not that into you"...read it, learn it, love it, live it.
6. avoid internet dating
7. identify your standards and stick to them. don't settle for anything less.
8. know that it's AOK to be single
9. do background checks
10. DO NOT AVOID RED FLAGS

That's it for now...I'm sure more will come to me while I'm driving home or cooking or something...no worries, i'll get back to ya on them.

....i'll send you the bill later....

 

[mshad]

habitualhealth....you are too funny!! I have the book but need to do a re-read! Got my first official date sat...by that I mean the guy called me 3days before(not the day of) and has everything planned(didn't do the "what do you want to do" and I was told not to worry we will have lots of fun! I am sick of guys being lazy about dating adn putting in little to no effort...I seriously have gotten the fri night call asking if I would like to get together that night!! I don't care if I am doing nothing the answer will ALWAYS be no!!! They really have no clue and now I have to go weed through them!

All I can do is be myself and try to not believe most of what they say because lets face it a guy will say almost ANYTHING to get a girl in bed!!!

Thanks ladies

hanned5

 

[habitualhealth]

habitualhealth....you are too funny!!
All I can do is be myself and try to not believe most of what they say because lets face it a guy will say almost ANYTHING to get a girl in bed!!!

Glad I can provide entertainment!

and hey...what's wrong with saying anything to get someone in bed??? I do that alllll the time.



(JOKE!....HH=not a skeezer)

 

[habitualhealth]

Ok, a few more pointers...they just come to me sporatically.

AVOID:
unibrows
halitosis
highwater pants

 

[SoKlueles]

Ok, a few more pointers...they just come to me sporatically.

AVOID:
unibrows
halitosis
highwater pants

oh shit

no highwater pants???
I soooooo hated dating and when me and hammy broke up the last time, i sooooooo cussed him for making me have to date and find my "soulmate" again
Of course, i didnt do it much, I turn red when a guy talks to me.... I hate that, Im 35 years old and i blush like a damn teenybopper. My friend at work laughs at me and that doesnt help either