With my ex we used to go to Trapeze in Ft Lauderdale. It was fun, but mostly older people. We were in our 20's and were definately the youngest people there. It is a bottle club so people brought their own bottle. We'd usually get drunk before going and accept a drink if a couple offered. My girl was a stripper and was a hottie so it was good because I'd get to fuck the hotter women there. I dont think I could do the swingers thing with a girl I was real serious about, but with someone you're not gonna be with forever it is lots of fun!