How many of you are really in love with your spouse?

[SpyWizard]

I am in my 30's and I have never been in love with a woman... I mean true love.. how many others share this? discuss

i'm on my 2nd marriage.. before i got married to this woman, i asked myself one very important question..

"If tomorrow i won the lottery, would i wish i was single?? or would i want to spend all that money, and experience life with this woman?? "

the answer was yes, so i married her..

been together 15 yrs now..

 

[EnderJE]

I'm not getting the question. Being 'in-love' is not an absolute. It's a feeling like everything else that can be controlled with perspective and context. Do I love my wife? Yes. Am I in love with my wife? Sometimes. Depends on what else has happened during that day.

 

[Arabian]

Good for you.. read my signature about Abraham Lincoln?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Well, I was madly in love with my ex-husband... what A FUKKIN disaster that was. My last husband I did NOT marry for love. He knows it... I didn't fall madly in love with him until many MANY months thereaffter. Now, if something happened to him, I don't know if I could draw breath...

One does not marry for love.

LOVE is what happens along the way.

 

[Arabian]

I wish the very best..................

 

[BNG]

Deep question when you get into it.
We've been married for 15 years and we've definitely had our moments of question. I love my wife and would feel lost without her. I trust her completely. She tells me she loves me & trusts me and most of the time there isn't any reason to think otherwise. There are times we don't even like each other. She has asked if I wanted a divorce more than once.

 

[miplank]

I'm not getting the question. Being 'in-love' is not an absolute. It's a feeling like everything else that can be controlled with perspective and context. Do I love my wife? Yes. Am I in love with my wife? Sometimes. Depends on what else has happened during that day.

I disagree w/the perspective and context part of your post.


While my wife can piss me of from time to time....I never stop loving her becuase of my perspective or whatever the context at the time is.

Nothing that happens throughout my day, whether she causes it or not, can change the way I feel about her.

 

[miplank]

Well, I was madly in love with my ex-husband... what A FUKKIN disaster that was. My last husband I did NOT marry for love. He knows it... I didn't fall madly in love with him until many MANY months thereaffter. Now, if something happened to him, I don't know if I could draw breath...

One does not marry for love.

LOVE is what happens along the way.

I married for love...


Now I didn't start dating her because I loved her...but as I got to know her I began to love her, and after awhile my love kept growing and growing. So we got married...had children..blah blah blah.

I agree Love happens along the way though...While I think one should have it prior to marriage...like anything else..as time goes on you either "grow" together...or grow apart.

W/o constant work on your relationship...prepare for the latter.

 

[markmark]

miplank, well said on both statements above^^^^ How do i give you K

 

[miplank]

click the Karma button below my name.