How Important is Image to You?

[Smurfy]

It's a total bummer sometimes too when someone seems cool and is attractive but dating them seriously would cost you in terms of reputation and respect - those might be the wrong words but you know what I mean. It takes a very specific type of person who can be with someone that has that kind of rep and make it work for them - most people involved in the situation seem to be gullible or lying to themselves. So far, all I've seen happen are people lose friends by failing to adhere to bros before hos. My little bro's roomie for instance started seeing a girl with a bad rep (my bro and at least another friend had banged her) and by the end of it not one of his friends had any respect left for the guy because of the situation. Really nice kid too he just needs some self-confidence and a backbone.

did you just propose?

the answer is yES!

 

[the_clockwork]

hi

 

[Cutiebaby]

If just hanging around the house or what not and wearing sweats and shit clothes that is fine..But to go out to eat or shopping at the mall or some thing, they need to be dressed nice..Having 3 kids, I dont go getting into jeans and makeup daily..I am in my comfy clothes.But I respect myself and my husband enough that when we go out I look nice.
I am not that big on appearances, there is a big difference between looking nice and going over the top

 

[swole]

If just hanging around the house or what not and wearing sweats and shit clothes that is fine..But to go out to eat or shopping at the mall or some thing, they need to be dressed nice..Having 3 kids, I dont go getting into jeans and makeup daily..I am in my comfy clothes.But I respect myself and my husband enough that when we go out I look nice.
I am not that big on appearances, there is a big difference between looking nice and going over the top

i put on suave getups just for walmart

all the 19 year old moms love me!

 

[H_T_]

i'm pushing 40. i'm not running out and cultivating an emo look to get someones attention. plus, i have the timeless meathead look. i started this, btw. way back in the early 90's. shaved head, goatee, tats. i'm a classic!

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

Eh usually it doesn't matter to me but if I'm going downtown or to a nice dinner, I will dress up. I don't try to impress people all the time, however as I said, if I have to be somewhere where you need to look good, I do it. Tonight Peter and I are going downtown so I will put the effort in to look nice (about 45 minutes worth - shower, blow dry hair, make up, dress, etc).

Right now I'm heading to the mall to shop and I haven't brushed my hair, thrown it up in a pony tail, no makeup on, a white t shirt, and jeans...

I believe everyone cares somewhat.