How do women hold back, when so many men want sex?

[Bikini Mod]

When I took sociology as an undergrad there was a study that established there is a direct correlation with body piercings and promiscuity. Don't believe it or not but women that pierce their noses, belly buttons and clits are more promiscuous than women that don't.

This apply to Indian women too?

And who is to say that sexually liberated = promiscuous?

What about double, triple or piercing ears all the way up till the top of their ears?

Lots of studies say all sorts of things depending on who is doing the research.

I don't know about studies I only know of the women that I know personally. I have one female friend that has slept with goodness knows how many men, yet she was faithfully married for I believe about 17 years. Once she and her husband decided to go their separate ways amicably she went back to being liberated again. She is discriminating but has no trouble behaving like a responsible adult female sexing whomever she wishes, when she wishes and has ZERO piercings other than the conventional ear pierces. I also have two other female friends that both have their tongues pierced, one has her face pierced, multiple ear piercings and I think you can count on both hands how many partners they have had collectively. One woman is mid 30's the other is mid 20's.

I don't have an issue with men who can think for themselves and who aren't threatened by a sexually liberated woman. I do, however, have MAJOR issues with the juvenile rhetoric on that thread which 99% of was meant to debase women. PERIOD.

It's jewelry, nothing more and nothing less and hardly an accurate indicator of morality.

 

[DJ_UFO]

I hate the double standard of society. Specially men. And that's because traditionally we've been raised so conservative based on religious traditions and that is bullcrap. Those religious stories were written by a dude.

Men love to marry a conservative lady, and then they are cheating with strippers or with easy girls. Why? Why not marry an open minded liberal lady? not because you met her crazy means she will fuck the mail man every day! it goes both ways. Women need to keep the relationship alive, and men need to do the same.

I'd love to find a crazy open minded girl for me

 

[Smurfy]

How is it that women don't end up going out and sleeping around when it is so easily available to them?

An semi cute woman can show up to a bar and get with about 20 different goodlooking men at the bar if she wanted to.

Women can find sex on the internet extremely easily

Heck a woman could probably just show up to a grocery store and talk to half the hot men there and be able to score a date and then sex afterwards.


Because pussy is in such high demand each woman could sleep with many different men that are better looking then they are, and yet they don't sleep around as much as all the men want to.

Why is this?

There are many unappealing men out there, such as yourself. It's not hard to resist.

 

[Tatyana]

When I took sociology as an undergrad there was a study that established there is a direct correlation with body piercings and promiscuity. Don't believe it or not but women that pierce their noses, belly buttons and clits are more promiscuous than women that don't.

Even that the word 'promiscuous' is used instead of 'they had more sexual partners is very telling.

yes it would be easy to go out and pick up a man (or two) every night. But KNOWING how most of you think, it is just too icky to contemplate 'casting pearls before swine'.

Of course that is not most men, but I would say that 75% of you would not consider a girl for anything more than a 'shag buddy' if she slept with you on the first or second 'date'.

Women are valued for how we look, how we dress, people make instant judgements.

It is just so boring.

You would think by now at least women in the Western World would not have to go through all this bollux.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Even that the word 'promiscuous' is used instead of 'they had more sexual partners is very telling.

yes it would be easy to go out and pick up a man (or two) every night. But KNOWING how most of you think, it is just too icky to contemplate 'casting pearls before swine'.

Of course that is not most men, but I would say that 75% of you would not consider a girl for anything more than a 'shag buddy' if she slept with you on the first or second 'date'.

Women are valued for how we look, how we dress, people make instant judgements.

It is just so boring.

You would think by now at least women in the Western World would not have to go through all this bollux.

Will you marry me? LOL

If more men would only get *a clue*

 

[healother]

3 points:

-after this weekend im not so sure that they do keep it in their pants turns out the girl i liked is a complete skank

-I think the reason that the double standard exists is because women can get it soo easily if they want, so as the saying goes, "with great power comes great responsibility". Women are held more accountable than men are for sex, since women could have tons of sex in a short period of time if they really wanted to.

-when they do have sex who gets it? Is it just a few guys raking in all the pussy? or are just as many men getting laid as women?

 

[Bikini Mod]

3 points:

-after this weekend im not so sure that they do keep it in their pants turns out the girl i liked is a complete skank

What is the difference between a ho and a bitch? A ho sexes everyone. A bitch sexes everyone but you!

LOL... that is a JOKE.

Fact of the matter is what difference does it make to you if this girl is shagging EVERYONE? Did you think you would marry her? You barely knew her. And look at your reaction. Did you honestly think that ANY WOMAN will tell you their sexual habits based on YOUR REACTION? <===== question that ALL MEN who have similar points of view should be asking themselves bout now.

-I think the reason that the double standard exists is because women can get it soo easily if they want, so as the saying goes, "with great power comes great responsibility". Women are held more accountable than men are for sex, since women could have tons of sex in a short period of time if they really wanted to.

The double standard exists because of control, nothing more and nothing less. With birth control and DNA testing and the law making men own up to financial responsibility (at least in design anyways) there are very few women who are left holding the bag and now ANY MAN has within his means to prove/disprove paternity.

It is amazing to me that most American men still ascribe to the archaic notion that the number of men a woman has sex with has anything to do with HER desirability (or lack thereof) while he feels he can shag any warm hole that will allow it and somehow his desirability is NOT diminished.

Seems to me that men are more a victim of the double standard than women are as their mentality just hasn't caught up with technology.

Hint, hint... there are other, BETTER ways to size up a perspective mate than just her sex.

-when they do have sex who gets it? Is it just a few guys raking in all the pussy? or are just as many men getting laid as women?

How bout you worry less about what who and how other men are or are not getting laid and worry more about developing your own personal perspective about what is truly desirable/notsodesirable about a perspective mate as opposed to a piece of ass?

 

[Cal_21]

Who says they aren't out there getting sects everywhere? lol

 

[Bikini Mod]

Who says they aren't out there getting sects everywhere? lol

Exactly, we just don't tell the fellas.

And you know what I find FUNNIEST about that shit? When a man asks a woman how many partners she has had he actually expects her to tell the truth!

Men are silly, silly, silly.

I don't give a shit how many partners my man has had before me so then why should he care how many partners I have had?!

 

[musclemom]

How is it that women don't end up going out and sleeping around when it is so easily available to them?

An semi cute woman can show up to a bar and get with about 20 different goodlooking men at the bar if she wanted to.

Women can find sex on the internet extremely easily

Heck a woman could probably just show up to a grocery store and talk to half the hot men there and be able to score a date and then sex afterwards.


Because pussy is in such high demand each woman could sleep with many different men that are better looking then they are, and yet they don't sleep around as much as all the men want to.

Why is this?

Why the hell don't you go to the library and do a little research? Look up sexuality and psychology. You'll get much better information from Masters and Johnson, Shere Hite and Kinsey than you do from this board. What you're getting from this board is mostly observation colored by personality.

Basic biology, millions of sperm vs. one egg. One passionate embrace and a sploog vs. 9 months of pregnancy followed by another 10+ years of responsibility.

The fact is, tens of thousands of years of evolution outweighs a couple of decades of industrial revolution. Women have a biological imperative, that overrides the recent advent of easy birth control and increased dollar value in the job market, to (GENERALLY) be somewhat more selective with whom they breed.