well, not trying to stereotype, but i worked in a titty bar for 2 years, lived the scene for awhile, and MOST of them are nuts, NOT all of them. my gf in fact is a stripper, so they can be sane (some of the time) just ask her, dont be worried about all the invites she gets nightly, if she wanted to go out with all the others she would, if she says yes to you, it means something. at least you can get a little pickle tickle out of it!