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How do I ask this dancer out
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alexiarenee
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Not all dancers have drug problems. Sheesh!!
I think the % of dancers that are strung out on drugs, is equal to the % of women on drugs overall.
People just use that as an excuse-"oh yeah, she does coke cuz she's a stripper!"
Not all dancers will play you, and not all will want to talk to you if you go in there and dont spend $$..
Its not that we are mean, or gold diggers, or whatever--it's just that when we go there, we are there for a purpose-make as much $$ as we can in 6 hours (for me) then go home. It's hard enough to put up with most of the guys that go in there, especially for free!
I am asked everyday to meet outside for extra cash, but I say "No, I only dance in here, and when I leave I am a defferent person."
Some girls do though...im not saying all dancers are not whores or druggies, but there are just as many druggies and whores who are not dancers.
I think the % of dancers that are strung out on drugs, is equal to the % of women on drugs overall.
People just use that as an excuse-"oh yeah, she does coke cuz she's a stripper!"
Not all dancers will play you, and not all will want to talk to you if you go in there and dont spend $$..
Its not that we are mean, or gold diggers, or whatever--it's just that when we go there, we are there for a purpose-make as much $$ as we can in 6 hours (for me) then go home. It's hard enough to put up with most of the guys that go in there, especially for free!
I am asked everyday to meet outside for extra cash, but I say "No, I only dance in here, and when I leave I am a defferent person."
Some girls do though...im not saying all dancers are not whores or druggies, but there are just as many druggies and whores who are not dancers.
the_only_sepe
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I happen to know way too many strippers, have dated strippers, not a single one was worth a shit. Stripping is a dirty job, I dont care what kind of girl you are..
NYM... BRILLIANT as usual!! lol.
NOT ALL STRIPPERS ARE TROUBLE!! thats a stupid comment to make. its going to be wierd trying to approach her at work... most of the girls are going to have their defense up there b/c of all the pervs they encounter. see if u can catch her outside work somehow. either way shes probably going to think ur a "obssesed" as so many of the customers get.good luck buddy!
NOT ALL STRIPPERS ARE TROUBLE!! thats a stupid comment to make. its going to be wierd trying to approach her at work... most of the girls are going to have their defense up there b/c of all the pervs they encounter. see if u can catch her outside work somehow. either way shes probably going to think ur a "obssesed" as so many of the customers get.good luck buddy!
NY Muscle
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not all strippers are bad no, and if you guys really want to hang out with a stripper, just hang ou till closing, bullshit with the girls all night, see where they are going after work, usually the diner, if ur lucky and they like you they will ask you to go.
too bad the *good girl* strippers dont have a name tag that separates them from the *bad girl* strippers...would make it so much easier for guys. lol
not all strippers are bad no, and if you guys really want to hang out with a stripper, just hang ou till closing, bullshit with the girls all night, see where they are going after work, usually the diner, if ur lucky and they like you they will ask you to go.
too bad the *good girl* strippers dont have a name tag that separates them from the *bad girl* strippers...would make it so much easier for guys. lol
Bikini Mod
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OK, I have to agree that the percentage of women who have an altered perception of reality in the dancing (clothing on OR off) profession is PROBABLY higher than with the women who do not. HOWEVER, to say that ALL women who earn thier money this way are trouble or sluts, etc is just plain RETARDED. That is like saying that ALL COPS UPHOLD THE LAW.
Having said that, I can honestly say that there is not one night at work that I do not hear the comment from a man, "You do NOT belong here." - NO DUH! Not all of us do, but at this given moment in time it is how I earn enough money for the LEAST amount of time, still am with my children when my ex does not have them and still have time to get back to school. I work hard for my physique and am not ashamed of it. I am VERY comfortable in my own skin. I have always liked to dance and I have a generally sunny disposition - especially at work as I am there to entertain and sell the fantasy.
To answer your question, the girl may be totally screwed up or she may be one of the decent girls, just like ANY GIRL that you would meet at the grocery store or gym, but you will never know unless you ask her out. How to do that is a difficult task though. See, once a man walks through the door at any club where I am employed I WOULD NEVER EVEN REMOTELY CONSIDER DATING HIM OR EVEN SEEING HIM SOCIALLY - PERIOD!
I am not anti-dance or strip club. Hello! It is what I do (dance, that is). But the vast majority of men who frequent these places are just not the type of guy that I would want to socialize with. I know, I know, now I sound like the person making the stereotypical generalizations. But I just can't help but feel that if a man's first impression of me was as "the fantasy" that he would not understand that there is so much more to me.....
Yes - WE ARE ALL ABOUT THE MONEY. How many of you go to work "because it is fun and you like it"?.... If you do then that is an added bonus, but for the most part aren't you there to earn a paycheck?!
Try and see if there is a way for you to meet her OUTSIDE the club without seeming like a stalker (easier said than done - LOL!). If you really didn't spend any money then perhaps she won't remember you.... unless you are a regular. Then you are pretty much sunk, that is, if she is a nice girl.
Good luck...
PS - I have had MANY offers of all kinds and I have yet to get one that would entice me to go home with a guy... or even as far as the parking lot WITHOUT the escort of a bouncer....and I am for all intensive purposes, unattached.
Having said that, I can honestly say that there is not one night at work that I do not hear the comment from a man, "You do NOT belong here." - NO DUH! Not all of us do, but at this given moment in time it is how I earn enough money for the LEAST amount of time, still am with my children when my ex does not have them and still have time to get back to school. I work hard for my physique and am not ashamed of it. I am VERY comfortable in my own skin. I have always liked to dance and I have a generally sunny disposition - especially at work as I am there to entertain and sell the fantasy.
To answer your question, the girl may be totally screwed up or she may be one of the decent girls, just like ANY GIRL that you would meet at the grocery store or gym, but you will never know unless you ask her out. How to do that is a difficult task though. See, once a man walks through the door at any club where I am employed I WOULD NEVER EVEN REMOTELY CONSIDER DATING HIM OR EVEN SEEING HIM SOCIALLY - PERIOD!
I am not anti-dance or strip club. Hello! It is what I do (dance, that is). But the vast majority of men who frequent these places are just not the type of guy that I would want to socialize with. I know, I know, now I sound like the person making the stereotypical generalizations. But I just can't help but feel that if a man's first impression of me was as "the fantasy" that he would not understand that there is so much more to me.....
Yes - WE ARE ALL ABOUT THE MONEY. How many of you go to work "because it is fun and you like it"?.... If you do then that is an added bonus, but for the most part aren't you there to earn a paycheck?!
Try and see if there is a way for you to meet her OUTSIDE the club without seeming like a stalker (easier said than done - LOL!). If you really didn't spend any money then perhaps she won't remember you.... unless you are a regular. Then you are pretty much sunk, that is, if she is a nice girl.
Good luck...
PS - I have had MANY offers of all kinds and I have yet to get one that would entice me to go home with a guy... or even as far as the parking lot WITHOUT the escort of a bouncer....and I am for all intensive purposes, unattached.
TheGame2001
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GIrls think all guys that come to stip clubs are WANKERS. Girls that work there anyway, well actually all girls. And guess they would be right, GOtta watch nooky instead of getting any. Give up on her, she already thinks your fairly pathetic....
GIrls think all guys that come to stip clubs are WANKERS. Girls that work there anyway, well actually all girls. And guess they would be right, GOtta watch nooky instead of getting any. Give up on her, she already thinks your fairly pathetic....
SoCAmuscle
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