I saw this documentary about 2 brothers. The younger one, by mistake, the doctors cut off his penis instead of the umbilical cord. The parents were looking for a way to replace it, butthe doctors didnt know what to do. Finally, she went to a doctor that said if you raise your son as a girl - he will feel like and think like a girl. So, they did it - changed his name into a girls name and the older brother is growing up thinking he has a sister.
As they are growing up, the "girl" is playing with her brothers toys, even though all the dolls and girlie toys just lay around. They go to therapy at the same doctor that suggested for them to raise the penisless son as girl.
The "girl" gets to go to school and starts early puberty. She finds herself attracted to girls, while thinking the whole time that she should be attracted to boys. More and more confusion grows in her head, she is miserable with her life and feels that something is missing. Finally, the dad tells the truth. The older brother goes in rage that this whole time he thought he had a sister and that was not true.
The younger brother marries. The older one never stops having anger problems since the time he learned about his brother. He kills himself. Shortly after that, the younger one goes off to the cornfield and shots himself with a rifle.
There Needto - the parents were incouraging his feminen side and he still felt like a boy, eventhough he had long hair and dresses and girl toys