"Hey, look what I've Got!" ... I'm sorry, but I just can't right now ... [rant]

[canadianhitman]

Well said!

Truth be told, you've figured guys out. It's probably for the best that more women don't think like you, or you guys would rule the world.

True. It's usually when we aren't in a sex-induced fog that we take a good look at the situation, think with the right head, and do what we really want to do. A little sexual frustration can deliver great clarity of thought.

 

[cindylou]

not a fan of crime scene crampy sex..just sayin lol

at the same time as long as the guy is not grossed out..idc

 

[mrplunkey]

True. It's usually when we aren't in a sex-induced fog that we take a good look at the situation, think with the right head, and do what we really want to do. A little sexual frustration can deliver great clarity of thought.

That's so true it hurts.

It's those rare occasions where we're hard-up that we actually start thinking clearly. When we aren't hard-up, we'll do stupid things like work 65 hours a week for the rest of our lives for a woman who thinks we don't take her on enough vacations.

Damn... we should just hold out on them and take the power back!!!

 

[musclemom]

When I'm emotionally stressed out, the last thing I want is sex, and having sex doesn't fix it, it makes it worse. I'm 46, I'm pretty sure I know how I work after this time. My sex drive is the highest when I'm on vacation, kicks in about day three.

As for "servicing" my husband (for lack of a better phrase) he generally doesn't like that. He can tell when I'm distracted and then he doesn't have fun, either. He's really not like other guys, I can't explain it any other way. Okay, this will illustrate how different from other guys he is: HE doesn't want sex when he's stressed out about something (like work). He thinks more like a chick in a way, he doesn't compartmentalize his thoughts and emotions the way most men do.

 

[EarthRider]

does your hubby have relationships with men

When I'm emotionally stressed out, the last thing I want is sex, and having sex doesn't fix it, it makes it worse. I'm 46, I'm pretty sure I know how I work after this time. My sex drive is the highest when I'm on vacation, kicks in about day three.

As for "servicing" my husband (for lack of a better phrase) he generally doesn't like that. He can tell when I'm distracted and then he doesn't have fun, either. He's really not like other guys, I can't explain it any other way. Okay, this will illustrate how different from other guys he is: HE doesn't want sex when he's stressed out about something (like work). He thinks more like a chick in a way, he doesn't compartmentalize his thoughts and emotions the way most men do.

 

[cindylou]

?? made sense to me

 

[jnevin]

Do you guys remember when poboy posted pics of his bed after he murderfucked his little GF? It looked like the bed in Nightmare On Elm Street when Johnny Depp died.

 

[jnevin]

I miss that guy. Dipshit that he was on here, he was pretty fuggin ok in person.

 

[musclemom]

does your hubby have relationships with men

You mean guy friends he hangs out with or are you asking if swings both ways? He's not bi.

He never had many guy friends, people drift apart between kids and divorces. The few he still has all live impossibly far to just hang with (so any get togethers can't include drinking unless someone is spending the night at someone else's house). I actually wish he had buddies that shared some of his interests.

Of course, I'm no better. I have exactly two women I consider good friends, one from the coven, one is part of the couple I got "custody" of in my divorce. My first husband hated all of the friends I had when I met him so he made sure they stopped being part of my life.

Gets hard to make new friends when you get older.

?? made sense to me

Which part/s?

 

[mrplunkey]

I miss that guy. Dipshit that he was on here, he was pretty fuggin ok in person.

+1

He was a very decent guy IRL.