Thats exactly what I was trying to say my boyfriend and I had some rough times but we got through them because we talked them out and we didn't let that other women get in between because he realized he has a wonderful girlfriend he didn't wanna let anything screw it up and thats exactly what he shouldn't let happen that other women probably won't do half the things his wife does for him. You can't have your cake and eat it to or put up with any of your shit. You have a great thing with your wife don't let someone come between you and her it's not worth it.