Help! - Married at Home Love at Work???

[genetics]

Just speak with your wife about your ( dick's ) situation and get it sorted bro. If she agrees to lettin ya pound her atleast a couple of days a week, go for it and tell the wench at the office to fuck off and if she doesn't, go ahead with the new found pussy you're about to make mince meat of anyway. Just don't cheat on her, cos...thats bad karma bro...

and trust me, bad karma is AVOIDABLE...

 

[Hellawulf]

No kids, thank God. But we have a lot of history and she's got a great heart. What makes the new one better? Better looking, more fun, same interests, same personality as me, and probably wants to have sex more than once a month (part of my issue with my wife).

WOAH!!! I should have read the rest of the board before I posted.... Sex once a month is a huge problem! Sex once a week would be a problem, especially since you don't have kids! This blows my mind, how do you guys not have sex? Like, you come home and watch TV, then go to bed? Come home and look at her, start kissing her, start rubbing her, standard procedure my friend. Do you guys never see each other?

 

[TheMsGuns]

So whats the update? Did you talk to her (wife that is)?

 

[musclemom]

So whats the update? Did you talk to her (wife that is)?

Who's your avatar? Nice physique

 

[Melaina]

We are all human, but we have animalistic instincts.... maybe she thinks you're cheating on her or do not love her anymore... hence the no sex. Her lack of intimacy with you may be because of you..... if that's the case it's you who needs to fix the root of the problem, not her, and not this other girl. Communication is key.... we're all waiting patiently for her response here...

 

[rnch]

why a hetero man would want more than one woman in his life is beyond me.....

 

[fakename]

So I tried to start the conversation with my wife about what i feel like is missing in our relationship. she immediately went to tears (which kills me) and just didnt understand.

Office girl says that she has never been so upset in her life to hear how upset my wife is and how upset her fiance is. She says she doesnt know if she hurt these people this way and that maybe we should just do whatever makes everyone else most happy.

Then of course she texted me this weekend saying how much she mosses me and how much she wishes there was a way she wishes that this could work.

My wife has gone from sad to happy to totally angry the past few days. I probably havent helped the anger since i have been acting pretty stand-off-ish given the stress of the situation.

As far the sex life is concerned - it has been this way for years. We have talked about it over and over again and she says it will change and it only does for about 2 weeks. Then back to usual.

Yes, we are 28 and 30 years old and come home, watch tv, and go to bed. Unless if its a saturday night and she's drunk. it's not happening.

 

[TheMsGuns]

So I tried to start the conversation with my wife about what i feel like is missing in our relationship. she immediately went to tears (which kills me) and just didnt understand.

Office girl says that she has never been so upset in her life to hear how upset my wife is and how upset her fiance is. She says she doesnt know if she hurt these people this way and that maybe we should just do whatever makes everyone else most happy.

Then of course she texted me this weekend saying how much she mosses me and how much she wishes there was a way she wishes that this could work.

My wife has gone from sad to happy to totally angry the past few days. I probably havent helped the anger since i have been acting pretty stand-off-ish given the stress of the situation.

As far the sex life is concerned - it has been this way for years. We have talked about it over and over again and she says it will change and it only does for about 2 weeks. Then back to usual.

Yes, we are 28 and 30 years old and come home, watch tv, and go to bed. Unless if its a saturday night and she's drunk. it's not happening.

Im stumped!

 

[fakename]

Im stumped!

Me too, me too...

I am just freaking scared to be alone for the rest of my life. Or worse yet, the creepy old guy trying to find someone.

Oh, one more thing. Aside from hurting people, etc. Office girl also says that she is terrified of hurting me and things not going well for us after i have uprooted my life. I dont get it, nothing in life is guaranteed.

 

[TheMsGuns]

Me too, me too...

I am just freaking scared to be alone for the rest of my life. Or worse yet, the creepy old guy trying to find someone.

Oh, one more thing. Aside from hurting people, etc. Office girl also says that she is terrified of hurting me and things not going well for us after i have uprooted my life. I dont get it, nothing in life is guaranteed.

True, so why do you think you will be alone for the rest of your life.
You have a wife and the gurl at the office who think you are interesting, so dont be so down on yourself.