needtogetas said:you can still spread them.
Me and Caligirl should meet up sometime She's way better than this other girl I'm talking about, I bet.
HumanTarget said:never ask a girl to do stuff. unless you're married to her. but until then, Norbit, learn to read the signs.
yeah, cuz if they know you want it, and have an opportunity to make you wait to tease you, they'll do it. girls love to tease men.
jackangel said:you can choose to live your life, or not. if you don't, no sweat...i'm not going to lecture you on that, because i'm no hero. but either way, the more you talk, the more you post about it, the more you attenuate yourself. all this mental masturbation...looking to share every fucking detail with total strangers that don't really know you or care about you, and then defending, explaining, and discussing ad nauseum...it doesn't do you any credit.
we all talk about our lives here, to some extent...and that's ok. if you're happy or excited or pissed about something...fine, express it. but there's always a limit...no one does anything like what you do. there's a reason for that. among other things, the more you blab away, endlessly obsessing over minutiae, the weaker you'll seem (and probably be). keeping some of your private life actually private is probably a good thing. there's definitely something you get out of it posting all of this...either the attention, or the sincere desire for input and advice. either way, that's less-than-admirable.
perhaps that's why people don't respect you here. another reason has to do with the silly justifications and explanations you offer up for your behaviour or attitudes (i.e., you won't or can't do this or that because of morality, or because of your parents, or because you're a poor recent-graduate still living at home, etc.). i say it's silly because i don't believe you, nor do most others...i believe you'll turn around and do something different when temptation rears its pretty little head...either because you want to, or because you're afraid not to.
i'm not trying to pick on you, but i will voice my opinion when my personal threshold for nonsense is violently exceeded. enough is enough.
Thank you for voicing your opinion. And I see what you are saying. I was wondering if this was too private a matter to post on here. I know other EF members post details about their mates and sex lives as well too. So do you really think that I have this problem more badly than the rest of them?
I think the plea for attention + getting feedback are the 2 reasons I do this, like you suggested. I thought some people on EF did care about each other though, and that people did have genuine friends on here.
The justification for my behavior, not having sex, etc, is something that I used to believe. Lately I've been taking that less seriously. Or maybe I'm just weak when it comes to sticking to my sex morals. I also tend to be influenced by others easily, so maybe i do things out of peer pressure. This would easily explain why a lot of people dont respect me here.
Anyways thanks again for the feedback. Maybe it would be better if I took EF less seriously and just posted a few things on here and didnt really care.
yes i am. i have not lied about anything that happened. why do you think im a fake?HumanTarget said:there's nothing wrong with your neck, bro. but i doubt evanfxyho is real. is he?
heatherrae said:This girl was TEASING you! Very uncool. She would jerk you off but wouldn't kiss you. Fuck her! That pisses me off.
I know it pissed me off too. Even though the jerking off felt good at the time, when she didnt let me return the favor later i was upset. Its pitiful that she is the only opportunity ive had with a female recently.
Itd be great to just forget about her and move on, but sadly im desperate and not sure how many other options i have. it was great how i just sort of randomly met her on a facebook discussion board. Getting to know her on that board was completely random and unexpected, like how good things are supposed to happen. I was just posting on there for laughs and fun, I didnt expect to meet a local woman.
Smurfy said:what I dont understand is, you dont even know this girl. youve seen her now two times, late at night in her house. you have yet to go out with her, but yet you expect the intimate part to flow with no obstacles? dude, she's a stranger to you and you to her. and she says she's 18, she's probably not. she sounds 15 to me. if youre going to be so picky about the interaction then perhaps you should get to know her. trying to have awesome sex with a virgin is totally impossible if they are a stranger to you.
yeah you're probably right. I should probably meet with her sometime somewhere and just get to know her better. We've talked online for hours, but that doesnt amount to much. It's tough because she lives 40 minutes away, and I'm not sure if she's the type I'd want to make my girlfriend. She's a different religion than me unfortunately, she's Unitarian.
beefcake28 said:Tell that to Biteme as well... He needs to keep some shit private also. Seriously.
lol, i was thinking of him too when jackangel said that. i like biteme though, he is a good poster, and very real.
heatherrae said:I doubt she is eighteen. Seems like lots of teasing and stopping for an adult.
She looks like she's 18, and I saw that she was listed as a senior on a hockey roster.
She has only been involved with 2 men before though, and hasnt had sex yet, so keep that in mind. she's only touch 2 other dicks before.
heavy_duty said:I find it interesting he said centimetre. not many Americans say that.
I think he is youngguns in disguise!
she was moving her hands down that slowly. like it felt like it took ages for her to get to my dick, lol!
SublimeZM said:wow i wonder what it was that made her hate u and completely turned off by u.
btw, u are an alter i think
probably it was that i was being too eager and an SWV at the same time.
if im an alter then how would I know that you blocked me on aol?