beefcake28
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jackangel said:you can choose to live your life, or not. if you don't, no sweat...i'm not going to lecture you on that, because i'm no hero. but either way, the more you talk, the more you post about it, the more you attenuate yourself. all this mental masturbation...looking to share every fucking detail with total strangers that don't really know you or care about you, and then defending, explaining, and discussing ad nauseum...it doesn't do you any credit.
we all talk about our lives here, to some extent...and that's ok. if you're happy or excited or pissed about something...fine, express it. but there's always a limit...no one does anything like what you do. there's a reason for that. among other things, the more you blab away, endlessly obsessing over minutiae, the weaker you'll seem (and probably be). keeping some of your private life actually private is probably a good thing. there's definitely something you get out of it posting all of this...either the attention, or the sincere desire for input and advice. either way, that's less-than-admirable.
perhaps that's why people don't respect you here. another reason has to do with the silly justifications and explanations you offer up for your behaviour or attitudes (i.e., you won't or can't do this or that because of morality, or because of your parents, or because you're a poor recent-graduate still living at home, etc.). i say it's silly because i don't believe you, nor do most others...i believe you'll turn around and do something different when temptation rears its pretty little head...either because you want to, or because you're afraid not to.
i'm not trying to pick on you, but i will voice my opinion when my personal threshold for nonsense is violently exceeded. enough is enough.
Tell that to Biteme as well... He needs to keep some shit private also. Seriously.