have you ever been involved with someone

[musclemom]

That is physically and emotionally so attractive that you just can't get enough of them? Night and day? From the minute you lay your head down to the minute you open your eyes? You reach over and feel them and all you want to do is make love to them?

Yes, and we've been together for over 12 years now

 

[Frisky]

Yes, and we've been together for over 12 years now

that is amazing MM, I want that same kind of relationship with my beau.

 

[musclemom]

that is amazing MM, I want that same kind of relationship with my beau.

Well, okay, but you have to be willing to give up financial security, your current lifestyle, ruin the lives of at least two other people and risk psychologically damaging your children for life

I'm exaggerating ... we never intended to fall in love, I've said it before, we were both married ... we hung out as couples and started being phone buddies. There were no taboos in our discussions since it wasn't supposed to BE that "kind" of a relationship, we ended up talking about EVERYTHING, every skeleton, every dirty secret we could never share with another person ... even stuff we'd told our spouses and they'd gone, "HOW COULD YOU?!?" To say that to another person and have them go, "That's IT? I can do you one better ..." We talked about stuff you'd wouldn't normally consider talking about with your boyfriend/girlfriend because it was like, there was no pressure. We weren't worried about screwing up our relationship because, we were just buddies, we were married to other people for heaven's sake. Boy did that backfire.

By the time our relationship had evolved to the physical plane we had become so close that there really aren't words to describe it.

As Gomez Addams once said (I'm paraphrasing): "I would kill for him, I would die for him ... "

"Either way, what bliss!"

 

[Dekaxx]

That is physically and emotionally so attractive that you just can't get enough of them? Night and day? From the minute you lay your head down to the minute you open your eyes? You reach over and feel them and all you want to do is make love to them?

Im married to someone i feel this way about...14 months and its still getting better

 

[scout69]

Yea and they all ended up to be Crazy

 

[Wulfgar]

I find it odd no one else dry heaves when they get done with sex. I feel disgusting afterwards

 

[musclemom]

I find it odd no one else dry heaves when they get done with sex. I feel disgusting afterwards

Wulfie, honey, you need so much therapy you wouldn't just be a chapter in some psychiatrist's book, you'd BE the whole book. Someone hurt you real bad sugar and that's just wrong If I felt like barfing after sex I'll be damned if I could justfy doing the activity after a while. I mean, dude, they got this drug for alcoholics, called Antabuse, it makes you wanna puke when you take a drink, the purpose of the drug is to make the person STOP drinking.

Generally speaking, after sex, I feel somewhat similar to what I do after a good workout, only much better Sometimes my legs are kinda "wiggly" and I generally don't feel like moving for a while other than to cuddle ... hubby calls it "Purring."

 

[needtogetaas]

my wife

 

[Wulfgar]

Wulfie, honey, you need so much therapy you wouldn't just be a chapter in some psychiatrist's book, you'd BE the whole book. Someone hurt you real bad sugar and that's just wrong If I felt like barfing after sex I'll be damned if I could justfy doing the activity after a while. I mean, dude, they got this drug for alcoholics, called Antabuse, it makes you wanna puke when you take a drink, the purpose of the drug is to make the person STOP drinking.

Generally speaking, after sex, I feel somewhat similar to what I do after a good workout, only much better Sometimes my legs are kinda "wiggly" and I generally don't feel like moving for a while other than to cuddle ... hubby calls it "Purring."

U think?
Im waiting for others who have a similar experience to chime in.
I mean, just the smells and the sights and the thoughts and the slimyness....

 

[musclemom]

U think?
Im waiting for others who have a similar experience to chime in.
I mean, just the smells and the sights and the thoughts and the slimyness....

Dear, I don't throw that term around lightly because I know there are plenty of people who are deeply, deeply insulted when you say it.

Think about it for a second, Wulf, sex serves two biological purposes, first and foremost it is for procreation of the species, secondly it bonds us to our mates. If the act of sex provoked negative physiological responses we wouldn't be around to talk about it now, our species would have died out from the get go. Fucking, screwing, humping, making love, call it what you will, sex is supposed to feel good while you're doing it and leave you feeling good, a pleasant afterglow let's say, when you're done. You're supposed to feel so good you wanna do it again, seriously.

I mean, I can vaguely relate to you in that I actually DO have a phobia, sort of, actually it's like an automatic "retch" reflex, it involves saliva (mucus in general, cum, boogers, okra) specifically seeing anything that has the consistency of saliva (I truly find spitting utterly revolting), but I'M not gagged out with sex, I enjoy giving and receiving oral sex and I love kissing my husband (as long as he's recently brushed his teeth) ... I mean, considering most of the fluids involved in sex have the consistency of saliva if anyone was going to be yarked out with sex and bodily fluids, it would be me.

And I really love the way my husband smells au natural, freshly showered or slightly sweaty, it makes no difference to me, I truly adore the way every part of his body smells.

I worry about you Wulf, I really do and I'm sad for you.