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girls POV...closing the deal

Except for one serious problem when I am myself I come across as a nice guy and as I have learned nice guys finish last every time.Cocky almost an asshole seems to be exactly the ticket.Because when your the nice guy they cry on your shoulder and then tell you just friends.
 
casualbb said:
Ladies, the man you meet in the club is not the same man when he's home, even if he doens't know any seduction theory. If that's the case, then why not GO FOR BROKE and learn exactly what works and why?
That's why I don't go for the man I meet in the club. I despise it when a guy tries to act all smooth and get his so-called groove on.
 
PHATchik said:
That's why I don't go for the man I meet in the club. I despise it when a guy tries to act all smooth and get his so-called groove on.

Aw why? That means he finds you attractive.
 
interesting thread....just saw this

i don't know if this helps gd, but if a club is really loud and your screaming back and forth info to each other, it is nice when a guy says something like, "it's just too loud in here and i want to hear what your saying, let's stand outside for a minute so i can get to know you."-----i.e.: you must actually talk to the girl once you go outside or it's too obvious

in my opinion it's all about the attention you offer up without seeming desperate (which it sounds like you know what your doing to approach a girl), so this shouldn't be an issue.....so for example, you two talk for a while outside, the mutual comfort level rises, and then you should be able to take it from there :)

or you could always just go for the DIRECT approach which will result in
a.) getting slapped
b.) getting laid
 
casualbb said:
We already do ridiculous things to make ourselves more attractive to the opposite sex. We even go so far as to alter our behavior. Ladies, the man you meet in the club is not the same man when he's home, even if he doens't know any seduction theory. If that's the case, then why not GO FOR BROKE and learn exactly what works and why?

And conversely, the girl you meet at the club is not the same girl you would meet at the mall on a Tuesday afternoon. Clubs gives "A" chicks a first-class ticket to be a bunch of...

Golden D, you just need some closing techniques. You've got 95% of the game finished, done, OVER. Crossing the finish line is just a step away, if the oven is truly as pre-heated as you claim. I will write some stuff up for you and send you a PM, but not now. Saturday night awaits!
 
velvett said:
I don't know if this help you - but giving off the "I'd like to get in your panties now" vibe is a turn off. Giving off the "I want to know all about you - because you just do it for me" vibe is a great turn on.

There's always the very causal "wanna do lunch/dinner tomorrow/friday line" that leaves it open for a response.


Yeah baby, this post is gold. I want you so badly right now, how about some fouton action?
 
Barak said:
Except for one serious problem when I am myself I come across as a nice guy and as I have learned nice guys finish last every time.Cocky almost an asshole seems to be exactly the ticket.Because when your the nice guy they cry on your shoulder and then tell you just friends.

I'm in the same boat, because I am very much a nice guy. The only plus is that they usually at least have sex with you a few times. Of course that leaves you single and dateless for the most part.
 
yeap I'm in the same boat I guess

lotta times i let the girl do the talkin/makin her move

it worked a few times... other times I'm just so fuckin drunk that I dont even kno what I'm doing and somehow end up witha girl whos just as drunk



now when I'm outta college and this party life ends... I dont know how I'm gonna do on those dates when I'll start asking girls out... I've never gotten laid after a date i'll tell you that much, I did make out with few so maybe I wasnt all that far away. (plus this are the type of girls who still mostly fuck college style, in other words when they are drunk)

my move would be the one where I give her a little kiss on the cheek and go from there depending on the reaction... before this happens though I'm already real close to her and feel that she wants to be kisseed
 
GoldenDelicious said:
lol thank goodness we got some girls in here, i was just about to order a six pack of hotdog buns and some mustard :D

ok, let me restate the question at hand, ladies: think back to the dawn of time when you were hot, young and fresh (;)) and recall a hookup with a guy...what did he actually DO? what did he actually SAY? what was his bodylanguage saying? where did he take you? was it quiet/noisy? describe the situation, and let us dummies try to tailor our game around it.. this isnt about being assholes and scoring endless women..its about how to make things actually FLOW properly

i dont walk around with my dick leading the way :) and i make people comfortable, im confident, chatty, witty (i hope lol) etc. my drama is that i *know* they are interested, sometimes just for straight sex, but right at the finish line, something trips it up and we both go home frustrated. im not about to start snogging in a bar (i have, but im not a fan of doing so....maybe i should...dunno, help me out here)

i mean, i sometimes get numbers, go out on a date, its interesting, theyre into it, but bang! same thing happens! finish line stumble! it gives me the shits.

Yea, that's me too. And then everything fizzles and you feel ackward running into em later, not knowing what to say. And then if you do and it's out in the open, it kills any excitement that could have been there, and you're back to square one.
 
k i've never read any of these player guides or whatever the hell you guys are reading, but I think i'm either lucky with women, or all that test I'm on gives off some crazy pheromones or whatever the hell their called.

If your talking finishing the deal, you have to devide and concur, a common known fact. Then once your alone I'd suggest just going straight Into her pants. if she came to your place or a place of mutual comfort boning then i think your already in. No talk just action.
:D

Yeah maybe i'm a jackass but that doesnt fail.
 
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