i believe size is far less important than technique. i am the statistical average, maybe a little thicker
i've only had two sex partners in my life, but both have been very happy with my size, and i know for a fact if i were any longer i'd be hurting my g/f as i can go too deep already. i'd hate not to be able to ram it home hehe
big bad boys might get laid by bad girls but with the deadly crop of STDs in circulation i'm glad i'm not sleeping around.
anyway don't believe the hype, be a considerate and attentive lover and you'll never have a complaint in the bedroom. this applies to both men and women!
and always remember,
when you measure your penis, never measure from the top! you will be cheating yourself on length. Measure from the bottom, and start at the asshole and measure to the tip.