Gay guys, your advice required.

[HansNZ]

How do you know whether that attractive guy at the gym eyeing you up is straight and is simply impressed by your physique, or has homosexual impulses tempting him to get down and dirty with you?

I have had more and more trouble with this over the last couple of years as my physique has matured. There was a really attractive guy checking me out the other day. Attractive men (so few in the first place), with homo inclinations aren't necessarily "out" or on the gay scene where I live, so you can't just pass up as "too complicated" these rare opportunities when they present themselves.

Because I don't come across as gay I have to be quite pro-active when appealing, potentially homo-inclined males present themselves. To cut a long story short he turned out to be straight. This frustrating situation is occurring more and more often these days.

I find that straight guys are frequently more obvious when they're checking you out than gay men who, when confronted with an attractive male of unknown orientation, have learned from an early stage the ability to thoroughly look a guy over without him even knowing they've noticed he's in the room.

Advice?

 

[TerraNoble]

How do you know whether that attractive guy at the gym eyeing you up is straight and simply impressed by your physique, or has homosexual impulses tempting him to get down and dirty with you?

I have had more and more trouble with this over the last couple of years as my physique has really matured. There was a really attractive guy checking me out the other day. Attractive men with homo inclinations aren't necessarily "out" or on the gay scene where I live, so you can't just pass up opportunities when they present themselves as "too hard". Because I don't come across as gay I have to be quite pro-active when appealing opportunities present themselves. To cut a long story short he turned out to be straight. This frustrating situation is occurring more and more often these days.

I find that straight guys are frequently more obvious when they're checking you out than gay men who, when confronted with an attractive male of unknown orientation, are able to thoroughly look him over without him even knowing they've noticed he's in the room.

Advice?

Check him out too....

 

[HansNZ]

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Check him out too....

I did....awkwardness followed.

 

[TerraNoble]

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I did....awkwardness followed.

Are u shy?

 

[HansNZ]

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Are u shy?

...a little, especially if I am not sure whether the guy does actually have gay impulses.

 

[TerraNoble]

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...a little, especially if I am not sure whether the guy does actually has gay impulses.

Well, I am heterosexual and let me tell you that being shy is a big hurdle for one to get his/her point across.

I was having shy moments too, but one or two drinks it really helped me in my endevour to get that pink in my bed.

 

[HansNZ]

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Well, I am heterosexual and let me tell you that being shy is a big hurdle for one to get his/her point across.

I was having shy moments too, but one or two drinks it really helped me in my endevour to get that pink in my bed.

Well, my gym is really straight. In fact my whole city is really straight - the gay boys seem to leave. Having said that HEAPS of nominally straight men (i'm guessing a third) like to dabble on the dark side from time to time. It's just a case of working out who they are and which of the attractive ones will give themselves permission to indulge.

If I lived in a bigger city i'd join a gay gym - problem solved, LOL.

 

[notoriousQQ]

Well, I'm not gay, but, here is my two lincolns. Just start with small talk and conversation, weekend plans, anything like that, where he might divulge information and insight about his own life. The next few times you see him, make sure you chat with him, even if its just about lifting, and get to the point where you discuss weekend plans or things that are going on and see what he mentions. I would be subtle about it though. That might be bad advise, that is just what I would do if I thought somebody was attractive and potentially eyeing me and wanted to see if there was any interest or purely just appreciating a nice physique.

 

[gsxr1000]

Well seeing as how I'm not gay, my advice may not be very useful, but here's what I would do.

Walk right up to the guy and just grab his package. If he starts to become unruly, just hit him over the head with a 45 lb. dumbell. Then do with his limp body as you wish.

This is my usual tactic with women, so I just assume it should work the same.

 

[TerraNoble]

Well seeing as how I'm not gay, my advice may not be very useful, but here's what I would do.

Walk right up to the guy and just grab his package. If he starts to become unruly, just hit him over the head with a 45 lb. dumbell. Then do with his limp body as you wish.

This is my usual tactic with women, so I just assume it should work the same.

Do all your women have "package"?
Make sure they are not shemales???