stapled -- try this to help with your wrists -- put your hands out wide and put your thumb over the top of the bar instead of trying to grab the bar. The bar will not go anywhere and it will save your wrists from getting pounded. It is much more comfortable this way.
Nightfly -- A lot of the lighter lifters and women have this problem mainly because they do not have enuf muscle mass in the top of their back. When you gain thickness in your upper back it creates a nice ridge for the bar to sit on. Try and keep your elbows back and it will help some.
Nightfly -- A lot of the lighter lifters and women have this problem mainly because they do not have enuf muscle mass in the top of their back. When you gain thickness in your upper back it creates a nice ridge for the bar to sit on. Try and keep your elbows back and it will help some.