Do or have any of you had to F friend for booty calls

[Sassy69]

The thing w/ messing around on the side is that you create another dynamic w/ someone outside of your relationship. Weird things can happen and the question is are you willing to chance the response if your g/f finds out even if you remove all the disease issues. (BTW on the disease issue frankly I'd ask her when was her last complete set of VD & AIDS tests....)

The thing w/ the girl's view of the relationship is that if you are sharing private moments & insights w/ someone other than your g/f, that can literally be a bigger violation of trust than the sex act itself. The sex thing is probably the bigger violation from a guy's point of view, but I just really think you compromise the full potential & value of the relationship you already have if you screw around. And if you choose to screw around, then I don't think you are ready for a deep committed relationship.

 

[solidspine]

It gets overly Complicated instantly.


Not fun,

 

[ninjapenguin26]

Go for it dude! Hope she doesn't get too attached. Man I have a girl calling me around the clock and sometimes she just wants to talk... and I don't want to talk to her... Especially when you have a girl. She gets emotional with you you gotta play it a little bit, you don't want to lose a fuck buddy. In the end it's your choice, just keep it on a d-l. Make sure you keep that your little secret, ya know?

 

[gonelifting]

Good relationships are hard to come by. If you have one, don't take it for granted because it may not come around again that easily. Let it ride and see if your girl is right for you. Maybe in three or six months you'll change your mind, but you need to give the relationship a chance first before self destructing it. Good luck