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Hell yes. Id get laid twice as much at least if women did the hitting. Women never make it apparent if they're interested in my experience ( at least not through eye contact and such).
Do men like to be hit on?
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redsamurai
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Female empowerement has brought me "zero" confusion about who and what I am. You?
Don't watch animal planet much do you? Female lions brazenly compete for the males attention, they almost do tackle them at times. Of course this dynamic is the result of there being more females then males in the pride, but it shows that your statement is not universally correct. There are other species where the male/female roles in courtship are either reversed or different from ours. But of course we're talking about "animals" though right? Animals which don't have higher order thinking process's liek we do right?
so every opinion a person has must be in direct relationship to their very own personal experiences? I can't excercize my higher order brain functions to analyze a situation that obviously needs attention, such as why male/female relationships are in deep, deep trouble in our society? So if someone questions the base dynamics at the heart of these social constructs....."he must not be gettin any". No it's not a legit question dude, it's borderline retarded. It's a primate's sentiment. This has nothing to do with my personal experiences whatsoever. There are people who can divorce their opinions from their own insular experiences. It's called not drawing a broad brush stroke over the universe.
Why is there no discussion of compatibility during dating process? Ive been seeing my current lady 6 months and weve already talked openly about finances, children options, religious compatibility, extended families, etc. And Ive done that with many prior girlfriends also.
Who are you trying to get with that you think its some sort of crooning competition? Even when I was hardcore internet dating everyone I could, I never thought I was in some sort of big competition, even if I was. Dating Basics 101 is dont give a shit about your competition anyway because they dont care about you and theres nothing you can do about them anyhow. Whoever you chase is either going to like you or not, doesnt matter why because you arent going to force her to like you.
If you think the typical dating scenario for any given person in the western world is BAchelor/BAchelorette then you need to turn off the TV and get outside and actually date.
redsamurai
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that show is extreme mockery I get it but it's not that far off either.
redsamurai
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ok ur still looking at this from a rudimentary position. It's the mindset people have, not necessarily their actions. It's a formulated process whether you realize it or not. Now you personally I have not been around you or your current g/f so i'm not going to make a personalized judgement as to ur situation. But looking at male/female dynamics as a whole I don't think I'm that far off stating that the traditional male aggressive female passive roles have done us any favors. Nor do i want some kind of uber aggressive boardroom jockstrap wearing woman who wants to own her man, that's not where i'm going. There's just a lack of upfront honest discussion from the beginning and it's my opinion that is the result of traditional male/female gender roles. I could very well be wrong but that's my opinion right now. And part of that does come from personal experience of discovering well down the line that someone is not who they portrayed themselves to be. And it's not just my personal experience that i'm drawing on but people i have know throughout my whole life. We waste alot of time with people who end up being disingenuine...and at times through no fault of their own, their following a blueprint laid out for us. It's all they know.
*ebony*
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you want married ones?
Mmm. Just a twist on the question but there is one I have my eye on and believe he has on me. It's cut and dry. I know what I want and what I don't want. There's a laundry list of reasons why I might prefer a married man, including NOT doing his laundry.
I still dont understand why couples not being honest or upfront with each other has anything to do with traditional male/female aggressive/passive roles???
These roles or reversal thereof, do not mean people are lying anymore than if the roles are reversed.
Passive men lie just as well as aggressive women. Neither is more or less likely to lie.
