Do men like to be hit on?

[-SD-]

AHA!!! it is the ego. And no that's exactly what I seek to destroy in myself but that's another topic and gets into my spiritual beleifs. I feel human ego is one of if not the most destructive forces on earth and when it acts in a collective it is awe inspiring at the misery it produces. At the very least hte improper formation of the ego is the problem...i agree you can never fully destroy it but you have to viciously contain it or it will utterly own your soul.

Dude, you have the most internet battles of anyone here (with plunky and whoever else you pigeonhole as neocon or neanderthal etc). You incessantly bang your head against the keyboard in hopes of getting people to see your way just as much as the others.

So youre not exactly trying to subdue your own ego.

 

[blueta2]

Female lions brazenly compete for the males attention, they almost do tackle them at times.

Ok, so I will do this next time

 

[cindylou]

AHA!!! it is the ego. And no that's exactly what I seek to destroy in myself but that's another topic and gets into my spiritual beleifs. I feel human ego is one of if not the most destructive forces on earth and when it acts in a collective it is awe inspiring at the misery it produces. At the very least hte improper formation of the ego is the problem...i agree you can never fully destroy it but you have to viciously contain it or it will utterly own your soul.

I 100% agree with you. Dead on. OR an over functioning super-ego.

 

[blueta2]

Mmm. Just a twist on the question but there is one I have my eye on and believe he has on me. It's cut and dry. I know what I want and what I don't want. There's a laundry list of reasons why I might prefer a married man, including NOT doing his laundry.

Don't do it, you're walking into spiritually corrupt territory, plus it makes you a scum bag...been there many yrs ago when I was young and stupid!
You're in for a whole lot of bad karma if you do it.

 

[redsamurai]

Dude, you have the most internet battles of anyone here (with plunky and whoever else you pigeonhole as neocon or neanderthal etc). You incessantly bang your head against the keyboard in hopes of getting people to see your way just as much as the others.

So youre not exactly trying to subdue your own ego.

Sorry, you don't get away with that...you know full well when and "why" the battles break out. U indulge yourelf fully.

 

[*ebony*]

Mmm. Just a twist on the question but there is one I have my eye on and believe he has on me. It's cut and dry. I know what I want and what I don't want. There's a laundry list of reasons why I might prefer a married man, including NOT doing his laundry.

don't do it.

 

[redsamurai]

Ok, so I will do this next time

well hang on now female lions also walk up to the males and swab their butts right across his face....that could be awkward in public, but he'll like it I assure you. The male lions always perk up with a "ok point the way" expression when it happens to them.

 

[blueta2]

hate to bring this up again, but there is a HUGE age difference between myself and you ladies. Dating at my age, is nothing like dating in your 20's.
I never pursued a man, they always pursed me.
Now at close to 46, I want to take matters into my own hands. Not to sound like I'm on an ego trip, but I get hit on all the time, and frankly, few men have a chance anymore because I'm immune to being hit on. I'm actually turned off when I am hit on.

As for the theory that it's in the male DNA to pursue, yes true, but we also have evolution and women in this day and age do not NEED men to take care of them. Women are powerful, make their own decisions, are independent and really have their pick. Back over 50 yrs ago, women didn't work, were brainwashed into thinking they had to be stay at home moms, so they married the first joe who asked them.

I never chase, no will I, but at my age, I will not play games. If I like someone, I will tell them. If the guy feels I am too easy (which I am so not), his loss. If he feels a connection and is not into games or just having sex, then he will be flattered I believe.

As for wanting men just for sex......been there, done it, miss it, but I had enough "friends with benefits" that I am good
I can have 10 sex friends if I want, Not my thing anymore.

 

[blueta2]

AHA!!! it is the ego. And no that's exactly what I seek to destroy in myself but that's another topic and gets into my spiritual beleifs. I feel human ego is one of if not the most destructive forces on earth and when it acts in a collective it is awe inspiring at the misery it produces. At the very least hte improper formation of the ego is the problem...i agree you can never fully destroy it but you have to viciously contain it or it will utterly own your soul.

YES!!!!! Ego is the soul's nemesis!
It helps keep the human species to keep procreating, but other than that, it's good for nothing.

I started a Mindful Meditation course today....Am going to incorporate it into my practice.

 

[-SD-]

I wonder how smurf and shirlz made it to college.

Or my own mother, in Mississippi of all places lol