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Do men like to be hit on?

The only thing I see is that you said you were not ready to date really and you said that you just wanted to be friends. I hate using the word test, but it might be good test to see if he respects that boundary?

If you're not ready you're not ready. If you do end up liking him and wanting to give him a chance it may give the impression that you don't really mean what you say even though thats not the case.

word test?
 
I don't really agree with you ladies. Overthinking can keep you closed off and you can miss out on the good things. Not to say you shouldn't proceed with some caution, but too much is nothing but fear.

I talked to Blue Shirt first, then we had some phone convos that went well. We had a great first date filled with some inappropriate behavior. (what can I say...I have never been kissed like that). I made no apologies and didn't worry he was thinking I was easy. I just went with my gut and did what I wanted with no apologies.

It's been 7 months now and I got a guy that makes me breakfast, washes my clothes, takes care of me when I'm sick, he even opens doors for me every time we go somewhere. I'm pretty happy


So to hell with over thinking. :)

WTF have you been and why are you dating a gay man?
 
Update:

so I spoke with FB guy on the phone the other night. He's not an addict, but has a little bit of a bad past. Ok, I can deal with that.

I went to meet him for a little last night on my way home, and he is better looking in person, but was pretty arrogant.
He owns a successful company and is also a DJ on a famous radio station here in Montreal (Never heard of him actually, but don't really listen to the radio)....BUT, he told me he HATES cats and that he LOVES country music.

So I'm done ;-)

Like I suspected, he hit on me and he seems like a jerk. This theory in my world has been proven over and over.
Hence why I'm only going to date a guy I will hit on

Though he did just give my business a free plug on the radio. He's on now and in between the dreaded country music, I heard him plug my business.
 
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Obv it didn't work out so it doesn't matter, but I say careful going on dates if you 100% know you don't want a relationship right now. Being led on is the worst.

Not that you did that here, just sayin. :)
 
I'm very clear to people (like I was to this guy) that I was not interested in a BF right now. I don't mind meeting new people, going out, maybe even a little nookie, but as far as a bf goes...yeah not ready and I won't lead them on.
Thanks AFeed :-)
 
No, not hit on anyone........yet!

But I did meet up with Mr FB last night and it's like I suspected, he's a train wreck! Shocker!

I won't even go into details, but he looks so "normal" on the outside, but is a mess. He even said "I'm sure since you're a nurturer and very kind, you must get all sorts of needy men after you".......fuck, ya think!

Anyone who says they are not a manipulator is a master one. He had no idea I am a fucking hound dog when it comes to sniffin out manipulators and liars! I called him on a few lies and also said "Any chance you were in jail for anything"
He was like "Why, who told you", hahah!
I said "just a hunch"
 
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