Do men like to be hit on?

[gatemoney]

Sounds like a keeper lololol

 

[blueta2]

yeah really.......had I only listened to my gut this same way in my past or not ignored the red flags.

 

[gatemoney]

Yeah being a lil older now I've found that my gut instinct is almost always right.
Especially when it comes to the nature of ppl.

 

[canadianhitman]

Yeah being a lil older now I've found that my gut instinct is almost always right.
Especially when it comes to the nature of ppl.

So true...the signs are always there...and our subconscious always seems to spot them a mile away. It's when we start thinking and projecting expectations and making excuses for obvious faults that we get ourselves into trouble.

 

[cindylou]

No, not hit on anyone........yet!

But I did meet up with Mr FB last night and it's like I suspected, he's a train wreck! Shocker!

I won't even go into details, but he looks so "normal" on the outside, but is a mess. He even said "I'm sure since you're a nurturer and very kind, you must get all sorts of needy men after you".......fuck, ya think!

Anyone who says they are not a manipulator is a master one. He had no idea I am a fucking hound dog when it comes to sniffin out manipulators and liars! I called him on a few lies and also said "Any chance you were in jail for anything"
He was like "Why, who told you", hahah!
I said "just a hunch"

I got goosebumps. :shiver:

glad you spotted that stuff early

 

[cindylou]

So true...the signs are always there...and our subconscious always seems to spot them a mile away. It's when we start thinking and projecting expectations and making excuses for obvious faults that we get ourselves into trouble.

You are so right. A lot of us were raised that way, I know I was. I was taught that feelings were bad, and emotions unreliable. Either that or they just didn't matter.

 

[smurf2]

yeah really.......had I only listened to my gut this same way in my past or not ignored the red flags.

Never ignore the red flags! I did that with several past relationships. What a mistake!!

 

[caligirl85]

So true...the signs are always there...and our subconscious always seems to spot them a mile away. It's when we start thinking and projecting expectations and making excuses for obvious faults that we get ourselves into trouble.

^^^Can I get an AMEN!?!

 

[blueta2]

So true...the signs are always there...and our subconscious always seems to spot them a mile away. It's when we start thinking and projecting expectations and making excuses for obvious faults that we get ourselves into trouble.

bang on and so true! Took me this long to get that

 

[blueta2]

Never ignore the red flags! I did that with several past relationships. What a mistake!!

I'm was the master at ignoring the red flags b/c just like Canadian said, I projected myself onto others believing everyone was/is good and kind.
When I think of all the serious red flags I saw at the beginning of a few of my past relationships, I cringe