Do men like to be hit on?

[PICK3]

I may....but it would be for wine, Pick would disown me if I drank coffee ;-)

nevah!

 

[blueta2]

I guess it would depend. If i had an inkling she was doing this to any guy that passed her by on the street no....but it would be a gas you have to admit. I just want to find someone spontaneous and alive like that. Not necessarily the tackling and taking right there on the doorstep....although that would be sweet later on in the relationship. Just someone who likes to step out of the norm like that and go flash the guy then leave. Everyone is so dirt nap boring anymore.

I do this when I am already in a relationship

 

[redsamurai]

I do this when I am already in a relationship

oh yeah? how bout a video demo for us then?

 

[nydj66]

So there is this guy who found me on FB, because we have many mutual friends. We had some back and forth on msg'es this morning and he is going to try to promote my business (he works in radio) and we went on and on. I said "Ok well thanks, have a great day" and his reply was "Ok a loaded question, how about i take you our for a coffee, drink or water?"
My reply "I'll see, if I do, it's as a friend only because not ready to date really"
He said "cool, I suck at dating, but you seem so amazing, would love to meet you in person"
Then find out he lives 5 blocks away.

He's really good looking, so I'm assuming he's bad news and again, he hit on me!

Opinions?

My opinion...

You should consider becoming the "other woman" for a handsome man from the States.

 

[-SD-]

Lots of overthinking with this shit. If you like someone go out with them. If you stil like them, go out again.
Dont powertrip by stating upfront "Im not ready to date so youre just gonna be a friend". If you can sense his intentions are to date then just dont go out.
You dont know, you might like him, then you will look like an idiot when you act like you want to "date"

 

[zwhit]

Lots of overthinking with this shit. If you like someone go out with them. If you stil like them, go out again.
Dont powertrip by stating upfront "Im not ready to date so youre just gonna be a friend". If you can sense his intentions are to date then just dont go out.
You dont know, you might like him, then you will look like an idiot when you act like you want to "date"

what???

No way its that simple bro. That would mean throw the test and questionnaire out the window

 

[nimbus]

do women like to be shit on?

signed,

wulfgar

 

[redsamurai]

do women like to be shit on?

signed,

wulfgar

^^^miss him


of course he knows the answer to that question

 

[blueta2]

Lots of overthinking with this shit. If you like someone go out with them. If you stil like them, go out again.
Dont powertrip by stating upfront "Im not ready to date so youre just gonna be a friend". If you can sense his intentions are to date then just dont go out.
You dont know, you might like him, then you will look like an idiot when you act like you want to "date"

not that easy.....people over 40 are fucking complicated.

I also found out he's a heavy drinker, so I will not even meet him as a friend.
I will never have an addict or even a recovering addict around me again

 

[cindylou]

True blue. Plus, your overthinking will protect you. Maybe one day you won't have to over think things but I think now its good to be vigilant. <3 Probably can't be helped...didn't you say you have PTSD? Yeah, you're gonna over think things. <3