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Do I fall for a girl too easily?
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brianharper94
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freshr1....Low self-esteem? Yeah, you're right bro. I do have great taste in women too though. I can't say that I have ever gone out with a girl that I didn't want to go out with. Of course, I think most women are pretty anyway, but this girl I'm seeing tomorrow night isn't pretty, she's more than pretty, she's perfect.
honeynut..... As for saying stuff to her about love and all of that, I know that's a no-no this early in the game. I did tell her she was my favorite person to be around. Is that too much? She just smiled, maybe blushed a little, and said that she liked hanging out with me too. She's really sweet and good-hearted so I don't think she would just all out say for me to get lost or something like that. I like the Acura's too, but I was just talking to the Cadillac people about an Escalade. I think I'm going to go buy it tomorrow afternoon before my big date. If not then I guess I'll rent something because I don't want to be driving my mom's car on a date. It's a nice car, but it's my mom's and that would feel wierd.
starbrn....Thanks for saying I'm a decent guy, it helps too know that someone thinks so. I've been cheated on before too, and yeah it does scar you. Personally though, I'd rather be dumped for someone else than dumped for no one at all which was the latest case. You sound pretty nice, so just remember that you don't need some guy that's not going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Guys can be stupid some..well, most of the time, so don't feel bad about yourself when a guy messes up and ruins whatever chance he had at a meaningful relationship with you. Just kick him to the curb and find someone better.
honeynut..... As for saying stuff to her about love and all of that, I know that's a no-no this early in the game. I did tell her she was my favorite person to be around. Is that too much? She just smiled, maybe blushed a little, and said that she liked hanging out with me too. She's really sweet and good-hearted so I don't think she would just all out say for me to get lost or something like that. I like the Acura's too, but I was just talking to the Cadillac people about an Escalade. I think I'm going to go buy it tomorrow afternoon before my big date. If not then I guess I'll rent something because I don't want to be driving my mom's car on a date. It's a nice car, but it's my mom's and that would feel wierd.
starbrn....Thanks for saying I'm a decent guy, it helps too know that someone thinks so. I've been cheated on before too, and yeah it does scar you. Personally though, I'd rather be dumped for someone else than dumped for no one at all which was the latest case. You sound pretty nice, so just remember that you don't need some guy that's not going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Guys can be stupid some..well, most of the time, so don't feel bad about yourself when a guy messes up and ruins whatever chance he had at a meaningful relationship with you. Just kick him to the curb and find someone better.
brianharper94
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Okay, I'm glad that i said something right for once!!! I'm s excited, nervous, anxious, over-joyed, thrilled, worried, confused, terrified, exstatic, oh, and I forgot happy, about going out with her tomorrow night that I don't think I'm going to be able to goto sleep tonight. I hope I don't do anything stupid or say something wrong. Now that we've gone over what not to say, any suggestions on things that I can say? I usually find myself saying something like, "I really, really,really,really like you...a lot...really." I always feel like an ass after I say something like that, but like I said, I'm not very good with words. I'm hoping that since I know this girl pretty well that I'll be a little more suave around her, but I doubt it. I'm more of the type that would just stare, drool, and make some kind of silly looking face. I can't mess this up though, I've been going through possible situations in my mind and conversation topics and stuff like that, but I still think that I'm going to mess up. Girls like to talk about themselves right? I could talk about her for hours, but that might scare her huh? I hope she's a little more talkative than normal becauseI don't want to be like the only one talking. I'm a good listener, but I have to have something to listen too. I figured we could go get something to eat at a really expensive place, goto a haunted house or something since it's near Halloween, catch a movie, and then take her back home. Maybe if I'm lucky I'll get a peck on the cheek even. I'd probably faint if she did. I know I would if she were to actually kiss me on the lips. She's sooooooo wonderful. I feel like I've won a contest or something and a date with her was the grand prize. I know it sounds corny, but I just can't believe she's going out with me.
brianharper94
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Hey everyone. I just got in from my big date and i thought I'd give an update. Tonight was the greatest night of my life. I'm so in happy that i could get hit by a truck and I wouldn't know it. I picked her up in my new car, and we went to eat. We ate at this really good Mexican place (her idea). Then we went to the haunted house. She got spooked really good and jumped into my arms (the haunted house was a great idea). We went to see Corky Romano after that. It was a good movie, she held my hand the whole time. Then I took her home and she asked me to come inside (I've been in her place before, so it wasn't what you're thinking). We sat on the couch for a little bit and talked. What was so great is that she said she could see herself spending a lot of time with me because she liked me so much (okay, I'm floating on a cloud right now). After a half an hour or so of talking she asked me if I was ever going to kiss her. I was like "Hell yeah!!!!" Anyway, after about ten minutes or so of kissing I said that I had better be going (I hated to leave, but I didn't want to press my luck). I'm in LOVE. It's like everything has happened so fast that I really haven't been able to think to myself how great this is. I didn't mess up or anything, I didn't even say anything stupid. Thanks to everyone for your advice. You'll all be invited to the wedding (okay, now I'm pushing it). I'm the luckiest man in the world. Just think, I was thinking of ending it all less than a week ago. Man I'm glad I came to my senses. Thanks again to everybody.
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Frackal
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Fuck her in her ass and then slit her throat while you're cumming.
Naw, seriously bro, I have a similar problem that you do, maybe we weren't loved enough by our parents or something....but I've learned from experience, do NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT get attached too easily, you'll normally end up getting hurt! (I'm not referring to KC here for those of you who know)
Naw, seriously bro, I have a similar problem that you do, maybe we weren't loved enough by our parents or something....but I've learned from experience, do NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT get attached too easily, you'll normally end up getting hurt! (I'm not referring to KC here for those of you who know)
You shouldn't really even be able to fall in love so damn fast. Are you sure you've been truly in "love" with these women, or just cared a lot about them? Anyways, I hope all works out for ya, and do not give yourself totally to her unless you end up marrying her
brianharper94
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Just got off the phone with her. We're going out again tomorrow night!!! He shoots....he scores!!!!
68GT350
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Girls and me both hate pussies. Just like HAMHOCK said, If you get whipped fast, she'll get bored and bang someone else, smashing your little throbbing heart to a billion peices. Don't treat her like shit but always let her know that there are other fish in the sea and she's lucky to be with you. Extend that gratitude her way also just to keep things equal.
Remember, keep things in moderation and all should be well. NO BIG GIFTS UNLESS A VERY SPECIAL EVENT. That screams pussy whipped!
Remember, keep things in moderation and all should be well. NO BIG GIFTS UNLESS A VERY SPECIAL EVENT. That screams pussy whipped!
68GT has a very good point - NO BIG GIFTS and I know this may be hard for you. No reason to get her anything unless there's an occasion for it so please try and refrain yourself from that sort of behavior! Your company is enough.
On a lighter note, congratulations!!!!!
Sounds like it was a wonderful success. KEEP YOUR HEAD ON STRAIGHT, don't get overwhelmed, you're not in love yet you're just dizzy and elated 'cause this is new. Take it slow. Good move not pressing your luck and leaving while it was still early, that was very smart!
Awwww, I feel kinda proud of you
On a lighter note, congratulations!!!!!
Sounds like it was a wonderful success. KEEP YOUR HEAD ON STRAIGHT, don't get overwhelmed, you're not in love yet you're just dizzy and elated 'cause this is new. Take it slow. Good move not pressing your luck and leaving while it was still early, that was very smart!Awwww, I feel kinda proud of you
