no the cyber issue was just a topic we were talking about she thinks its cheating however i dont.i think its really no better then watching porn and masterbating in pvt or using a 911 sex call number i just have more of an open mind then her thats all weather its right or wrong people r going to what floats there boat.to me physical contact is the real form of deciet and cheating,hell webcaming the person may be across the world so what u aint never gonna meet em .