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but srsly, almost no women care about how big you are
that's just for you to care about which is how it should be
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hell yeah they do
but srsly, almost no women care about how big you are
that's just for you to care about which is how it should be
You have what it takes. Even if she doesn't..don't lose faith that YOU have it. You will be happy. I am confident in that.
Im not justifying ur wife one bit. But you know a little more than most here about my life and you know my position in my own marriage. It's great you can admit you weren't fulfilling certain needs. It helps move things along in the right direction
Yeah it's not something anyone should ever have to think about. It's the hardest thing I've ever had to do. My first reaction was like woot and woody's - fuck her, leave her. You feel that way out of anger, the lies, the deception.
But, then you realize this marriage isn't just about me. This is about family, my kids, her sisters, my in-laws, cousins, etc. we have all gotten so close. I have to try and give it my all. When something hard happens in your life or at work you don't just walk away from it and say fuck this I quit. You give it your best with the hopes of succeeding. So many people today quit when it gets hard and I can't do that.
But, then you realize this marriage isn't just about me. This is about family, my kids, her sisters, my in-laws, cousins, etc. we have all gotten so close. I have to try and give it my all. When something hard happens in your life or at work you don't just walk away from it and say fuck this I quit. You give it your best with the hopes of succeeding. So many people today quit when it gets hard and I can't do that.
Cali72
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She obviously wasn't thinking about this when she was banging the other guy and for four years..
How can you ever trust her again?
If she wasn't fulfilled she should've came to you instead of crossing the line..
Time heals everything my man
Good luck
I know you're right and I think about that too and have moments in my head where I say the same thing - she can fuck right off.
It's hard to explain. It's almost like trying to explain to someone who doesn't have kids what it's like to experience the birth of a child, you just don't get it until it happens to you.
I'm with everyone here when I look at it from an outsiders point of view I'd say gtfo what's wrong with you. I can't explain it though - the thought of not waking up to my boys every morning, not having my wife by my side at night, not making lunches for school. There would be so much MORE pain and hurt by leaving that I have to try and if I give it everything I have and it doesn't feel right to move forward then I can walk away knowing I tried. Because I know if that day comes I would one day being explaining to my sons why mom and dad aren't together anymore and I would want to at least be able to look at them and say I did everything I could to make it work.
It's hard to explain. It's almost like trying to explain to someone who doesn't have kids what it's like to experience the birth of a child, you just don't get it until it happens to you.
I'm with everyone here when I look at it from an outsiders point of view I'd say gtfo what's wrong with you. I can't explain it though - the thought of not waking up to my boys every morning, not having my wife by my side at night, not making lunches for school. There would be so much MORE pain and hurt by leaving that I have to try and if I give it everything I have and it doesn't feel right to move forward then I can walk away knowing I tried. Because I know if that day comes I would one day being explaining to my sons why mom and dad aren't together anymore and I would want to at least be able to look at them and say I did everything I could to make it work.
