September 1 I found out this year. The guy no longer works at her office and it's been given up clean. She has been an open book since. He's tried to communicate with her a few times and she's let me know every time it's happened.
We are actually in a good place right now, maybe even better than in the past which is strange. I feel I trust her more, because she can clean and told me the truth. Intimacy has been 100x better because I feel she's into it with me.
Hard to explain or imagine a relationship getting better from this situation but it seems it has. I guess I was looking for or hoping for success stories from similar situations to keep me looking forward. If I'm the first I hope that I can inspire others. Life is hard sometimes and marriage is work. Some people think oh I'm married now time to kick back and put my feet up no more work to be done in this relationship just let it ride.
It doesn't work like that, once you get married the real work begins, then add kids and work and before you know it there's no time for yourself. Marriage takes more work than I ever knew. Open and honest communication is the key. If you feel you have to hide things from your better half then you're doing it wrong.
We are actually in a good place right now, maybe even better than in the past which is strange. I feel I trust her more, because she can clean and told me the truth. Intimacy has been 100x better because I feel she's into it with me.
Hard to explain or imagine a relationship getting better from this situation but it seems it has. I guess I was looking for or hoping for success stories from similar situations to keep me looking forward. If I'm the first I hope that I can inspire others. Life is hard sometimes and marriage is work. Some people think oh I'm married now time to kick back and put my feet up no more work to be done in this relationship just let it ride.
It doesn't work like that, once you get married the real work begins, then add kids and work and before you know it there's no time for yourself. Marriage takes more work than I ever knew. Open and honest communication is the key. If you feel you have to hide things from your better half then you're doing it wrong.