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Couples Counseling

September 1 I found out this year. The guy no longer works at her office and it's been given up clean. She has been an open book since. He's tried to communicate with her a few times and she's let me know every time it's happened.

We are actually in a good place right now, maybe even better than in the past which is strange. I feel I trust her more, because she can clean and told me the truth. Intimacy has been 100x better because I feel she's into it with me.

Hard to explain or imagine a relationship getting better from this situation but it seems it has. I guess I was looking for or hoping for success stories from similar situations to keep me looking forward. If I'm the first I hope that I can inspire others. Life is hard sometimes and marriage is work. Some people think oh I'm married now time to kick back and put my feet up no more work to be done in this relationship just let it ride.

It doesn't work like that, once you get married the real work begins, then add kids and work and before you know it there's no time for yourself. Marriage takes more work than I ever knew. Open and honest communication is the key. If you feel you have to hide things from your better half then you're doing it wrong.
 
September 1 I found out this year. The guy no longer works at her office and it's been given up clean. She has been an open book since. He's tried to communicate with her a few times and she's let me know every time it's happened.

We are actually in a good place right now, maybe even better than in the past which is strange. I feel I trust her more, because she can clean and told me the truth. Intimacy has been 100x better because I feel she's into it with me.

Hard to explain or imagine a relationship getting better from this situation but it seems it has. I guess I was looking for or hoping for success stories from similar situations to keep me looking forward. If I'm the first I hope that I can inspire others. Life is hard sometimes and marriage is work. Some people think oh I'm married now time to kick back and put my feet up no more work to be done in this relationship just let it ride.

It doesn't work like that, once you get married the real work begins, then add kids and work and before you know it there's no time for yourself. Marriage takes more work than I ever knew. Open and honest communication is the key. If you feel you have to hide things from your better half then you're doing it wrong.

A lot of marriages actually become stronger after infidelity. You have what it takes to make it work.
 
A lot of marriages actually become stronger after infidelity. You have what it takes to make it work.


Thanks Cindy I hope so and our counselor thinks so too. Though every time I get the bill from my insurance and it says "Psychotherapy" I'm like really could they pick a better invoice line item?

It has it's good days and bad that's for sure but I think we will come out on top. Some days I can't get the images out of my head. Even though I never saw or witnessed anything I asked a lot of detailed questions and got truthful answers so when my mind wanders and I go to that place it fucking sucks.
 
How can u not have any idea for 4 years ?

Ps she's cheating on you


I ask myself that all the time. You think you know someone and you just don't go there. There is also a lot of mental compartmentalizing on her part due to her upbringing and it was no big deal for her to be one way with me and another away from me. Sometimes you don't realize how your upbringing fucked you up until much later in life.
 
Thanks Cindy I hope so and our counselor thinks so too. Though every time I get the bill from my insurance and it says "Psychotherapy" I'm like really could they pick a better invoice line item?

It has it's good days and bad that's for sure but I think we will come out on top. Some days I can't get the images out of my head. Even though I never saw or witnessed anything I asked a lot of detailed questions and got truthful answers so when my mind wanders and I go to that place it fucking sucks.

haha it's okay. There's nothing wrong with some therapy. We aren't young anymore. Sometimes we need help. At least your insurance pays for it!
 
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