Couples Counseling

[miplank]

seriously, just shut the fuck up about it if your'e not going to do shit about it.

 

[miplank]

The only reason you haven't left him is because you haven't found anyone else yet.



That's what women do.

 

[miplank]

I love my husband very much, for a reason I don't know yet I can't bring myself to leave him, despite not being happy. I'm not quite saying I cheated on him, I'm saying that if someone came along and made me feel the way I wish HE made me feel it would not be easy to control myself. I've had conversations with him multiple times and his answer is always "take it or leave it". I don't want to take it but I dont want to leave it. Like Cindy said, not all is black and white.

wtf does that even mean? You cheated, or you didn't.



Even if you didn't, you're thinking about it.


Do the guy a favor and just leave him.

 

[miplank]

also $20 says captain FT's wife only wants to work it out after 4 years of boning this other guy cuz he got his wife pregnant and called the affair off w/her.

 

[PICK3]

I want to apologize to all the doods whose wives I fucked

my bad

also should apologize for fucking a lot of dood's moms

 

[caligirl85]

It may not be black and white the first time but for me, if it happens again, it's very black and white. I tried working it through as someone who was cheated on and it kept happening and I couldn't get past it.

 

[rainbococksleev]

I fuckin love people that just whine about shit their whole life and never do anything about it, it's not annoying as fuck at all

 

[wootoom]

Ya no kidding, especially people that don't have kids. Fucking leave. Why waste your life. Jesus Christ, you live once.

 

[WoodyO]

You and lil woody watch hey jessie? That's why u like feedz huh u sick psycho perv

Nah, we watch Rabbids Invasion.

 

[Captain FT]

also $20 says captain FT's wife only wants to work it out after 4 years of boning this other guy cuz he got his wife pregnant and called the affair off w/her.

Was it too much to capitalize the "C"?

You're not entirely right but not wrong. She had withdrawn from him and was not talking to him or returning his calls or not meeting for lunch and a quickie in the back of his Prius. So he had always threatened to come to me and tell me what was going on. She finally said fine if that's what you're going to do. He reached out to me through me email asking if I wanted to know the truth about their relationship (I never liked the guy but didn't know their work "friendship" was a "fuck/suck-ship"). I asked her wtf this was all about and she finally broke down and told me everything because she knew he would.

In the past his threats had always kept her coming back to him because she thought I would leave so it was a vicious cycle she was caught in and couldn't get out. He knew how to play her vulnerabilities. She has past family issues with her mom and dad so (finding this out through therapy) it was easy for her to compartmentalize what she did at work with him and forget about it and come home to me.

It wasn't like every day they would go to lunch and hook up, it was off and on over four years, it's still awful and completely fucked up but it wasn't every day for four years. Anything more than once is too much though.