Au contraire, I really come off much better through the written word than I could ever hope to possibly do in person. And I'm not ... ummm, the "type" (physically or psychologically) that the vast majority of men find appealing.
... and while I'm not averse to the concept of a homosexual relationship, I could never hack the drama. No, God forbid something happens to my husband I am going to be the crazy lady living in a houseful of cats