Chick just made herself do the walk of shame at my place wtf

[jh1]

Hey stupid men.......Women equate sex with love....why do you forget that

or coke...

let's not sell all women short and make them all out to be emotional fools!

 

[blueta2]

or coke...

let's not sell all women short and make them all out to be emotional fools!

she clearly expressed to him that she wanted more. So we're not talking about all women.

 

[Longhorn85]

Hey stupid men.......Women equate sex with love....why do you forget that

So prostitutes just have big 's

 

[jh1]

So prostitutes just have big 's

lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Stefka]

Hey stupid men.......Women equate sex with love....why do you forget that

I dont like this argument. I have never not slept with someone because I liked him too much. I've decided not to sleep with someone I really liked because I didnt want to feel like a whore - but I think that is different.

Also, they were already having sex. She just didn't want it from behind. This is a hang-up thing, not a love thing.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

id end up getting slapped across the face

no you wouldnt. youd only get slapped if you were being insulting/a dick. telling a girl that youre incapable of wanting a traditional relationship but that you really like having sex with her and living in a space of sexual sanctuary with her isnt at all insulting - it just sidesteps normal social preprogramming that sex is only ok if you do it within a relationship. I have several girls at the moment that im purely sexual with (i ended my self imposed dry spell last week woowoooo lol) and while theyd get REALLY MAD at most guys wanting to shag them and leave them, they love coming to my place, where its ok to be a purely sexual creature without judgement/bias/bullshit and just be happy

she texted me and said it was because she wants a meaningful relationship and not just sex LOL. Ive actually gone kind of slow with this one lol.
This was our 4th date before we even got sectchoowal. and i was never trying to put the moves on her before now.

tell her that shes on the rebound and as such, is an emotional retard that is incapable of being in a meaningful relationship even if she wanted to, and that its completely normal for that to happen after a long relationship. then give her the usual "i like being around you, do you like being around me?" "i like your company, do you like mine?" "i like kissing you/being near you do you feel the same for me?" "i have lots of fun when we have sex, do you have fun too?" (she'll say "yes yes yes yes" toa ll that) then simply proclaim that youre going to stay purely sexual while she sorts her head out, gets comfy in her own skin again, and starts dating other guys. then its just a matter of either kissing her on the spot, or taking the role of being the sexually available, sexually liberal fun happy guy in her life that she comes to when shes horny for sex and maybe a chat about how shes feeling while she screens other guys as potential long term partners

shes basically shit testing you and asking you to tell her what to believe/how to behave.

if you pull that off then I would say you are in like flinn, hard to do though.

its not hard. you just have to try it out a few times and work out what NOT to say. sex is fun. feeling used/like a slut isnt. talk up the good stuff, avoid the bad stuff, and you win

 

[Bikini Mod]

You know GD, I have to hand it to you... you are spot on.

But I gotta say that SuperDave might be better to just pass. The chick clearly has "whore" issues, which = emotional instability and might be more effort than he is willing to put into it just for some occasional ass. This "effort" for you, is no effort at all because clearly you are ok with yourself and the process it takes to get into a woman's head without getting an anuerism yourself. LOL

I am perplexed why a woman of this age and station in life would have "whore issues" over doing doggy. Shit, what's she gonna say next? "We can't make love unless you look longingly in my eyes while you utter delicately how much you love me?"

puh-lease

SEX IS A GIFT... A woman at her station in life should have zero issues separating sex from love. If she does then leave the broad be.

...just my .02

 

[Longhorn85]

Also, they were already having sex. She just didn't want it from behind.

That's not truly sex in my book.

 

[-SD-]

Text message from her yesterday:
Her: "Dave do you still want to date me"
Dave: "You arent very emotionally stable"
Her: "Thank you for telling me that.....take care"

jettisoned.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

You know GD, I have to hand it to you... you are spot on.

But I gotta say that SuperDave might be better to just pass. The chick clearly has "whore" issues, which = emotional instability and might be more effort than he is willing to put into it just for some occasional ass. This "effort" for you, is no effort at all because clearly you are ok with yourself and the process it takes to get into a woman's head without getting an anuerism yourself. LOL

of course im spot on, i dont get this many women by accident you kno

ive also worked at becoming congruent with being this type of sexual creature for a long, long time, and im finally really good/comfy at it, and my rep is spreading and acting like a screen - girls hear about what kind of guy i am, decide if htey like it, and some come chasing after exactly what im offering. its good lol

superdave: what do you think would have happened if you answered her question with a question, and maybe toned it down a bit so that it wasnt so insulting ("youre not very emotionally stable" = a tad insulting). maybe something like "how comfy are you in your own skin?" (which confuses them and throws the issue back onto them, so that they start qualifying themselves to you and really chasing what you have to offer...even though all youre offering is sex and they dont even really want that. or dont know that they do.) or even going playful like "date? mmmm ill think about it. first, you should take me shopping. and get me some flowers, too. and a present...something pink. and sparkly. yeah."

"youre not very emotionally stable". LOL smooooooooth