You need to help her calm down bor! Draw her a hot bath, take the kids to the park and let her have some alone time, make her favorite meal, rub her feet or give her an all over body massage with massage oil or something. Do something to take her mind off of what she's upset about.
If she's mad at you, go back and read my post #113 in your wifes thread. Pay special attention to what's in red.