I've spent some time in strip clubs and "hung out" with a few dancers(they hate being called strippers). If you're are a good looking guy you actually have less chance of leaving with one than you probably would if you were old and fat. From what I've learned from them, they get intimidated by the good looking guys. They figure you've had girls that probably look better than they do so they feel hotter when they are dancing for the "fat old desparate dude". That guy usually is loaded too and for some thats all that matters. If you've seen the girl a few times and not really caught her attention, try going on a week day. It'll be much slower and your girl will be much more willing to sit and talk with you as there will be less chance of her missing out on a payoff. And just talk to her like you would any other girl. She's just a girl like any other, only with more issues. Start with the nice guy approach. Most of these girls haven't had a very good male figure in their lives(just ask em about their dad and you'll find out where their issues came from most of time). No. seriously, wait awhile before you ask that. Before long she'll be calling you "Daddy". That's just my experience. Strippers can be fun but those issues will show up if you hang around too long. Good luck bro.