Seriously, it is hard to get your brain around this, I know I still struggle with it at times, drop your calories too low and the fat loss will stagnate.
There are exceptions to this rule (there always are), that starvation diets will work on about 5% of the population.
It is better to assume you don't have the 'freaky' genetics thing.
In the long run, it can mess up your metabolism. It is possible to 'fix' this, but if you don't have to, why even go there.
This is the good news hun, you can EAT MORE and look better.
I know I am making more of an effort to get more food in.