BJ technique question.

[Longhorn85]

I've noticed I have a pretty tough time keeping my teeth of it on the down stroke but no problem when pulling back off it. My bf flips if I hit him with any teeth so I have to totally avoid it if possible. This is becoming a serious source of contention with us because he says other women dont have this problem and insists there's something I'm doing wrong.

So am I the only one or does anyone else have the same technique problem?

He sounds like a picky person. One shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth. Wait a minute, bad cliche...

One shouldn't bite the hand that feeds?

 

[RottenWillow]

I hear what the men are saying about withholding the oral until he appreciates it more but what you guys are missing is that there's some self esteem issues involved here too.

For me, and I'm betting for a lot of other women too, it's a boost to our egos to know we can get a guy off. Makes us (me at least) feel sexier. You have to realize that penetration doesnt involve a lot of skill for us....we just provide the pussy. However, getting you off with our mouths is all about skill. Its something we're actively doing to make it happen and its a blow (no pun) to the ego to be criticized and be told you dont have the skills.

But I've already stopped trying to suck on the downstroke like was mentioned. I appreciate the input.

 

[Longhorn85]

I think that's where I'm having problems.

You're not having problems, he is. Dump him.

 

[Gymgurl]

The sad part anya is that I have to agree with Tuc....I try tp put my lips over my teeth......

Now the question is...how does he know this

 

[obiwan9962]

The sad part anya is that I have to agree with Tuc....I try tp put my lips over my teeth......

Now the question is...how does he know this

lol
he had practice?

 

[Gymgurl]

He must have with some big ones lolol

 

[obiwan9962]

He must have with some big ones lolol

lol
he never came near mine

 

[hellorhih2o]

here's the solution for you honey. open your mouth WAY big (like a dog that yawns) before you go down. You'll get further down and you won't hit your teeth. Don't concertrate too much on your lips, you don't need them to "surround" a dick.

I should charge for that one.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

You can suck on the down stroke just have to make sure you keep your lips curled over your teeth. As for practicing on a fruit or vegiee no fun in that. Best bet is to practice on your bf more than sure he will not mind.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Darlin' you are tryin waaaaaaaaay too hard. Listen.... Be extremely gentle. Tease him... Don't worry so much about suction. Lick up and down, tickle the balls - NEVER IGNORE THE BALLS! And use your hands while sucking.... When you go down, don't suck - it isn't necessary. There is a lot to be said for being gentle with your mouth.

Think of it like this - when he is giving you oral is it a "substitute" for cock? No. So then when you give him oral, your mouth is not "substitute" for pussy.

Slow and smooth, gentle with the mouth and lips and tongue, as it becomes more intense use your hands and don't even try to suck with your mouth but rather concentrate on just providing someplace warm and moist for the penis.

And for heaven's sake.... SWALLOW!!!! LOL

And remember, there is no substitute for "surprise morning, come in your mouth blowjobs".

Trust me darlin'... I give pornstar head.

Though it has been a very long time since I have met anyone that I have wanted to even take my clothing off for, let alone want to please in this fashion.