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BJ technique question.

RottenWillow

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I've noticed I have a pretty tough time keeping my teeth of it on the down stroke but no problem when pulling back off it. My bf flips if I hit him with any teeth so I have to totally avoid it if possible. This is becoming a serious source of contention with us because he says other women dont have this problem and insists there's something I'm doing wrong.

So am I the only one or does anyone else have the same technique problem?
 
Good thing you don't have braces lol. On a serious note, maybe you could try practicing with a dildo or somehting of similar dimensions (smokey or some veggie) and try to emphasize curling your lips over. Perhaps watching yourself in a mirror might help you to see where the problem is. I personally have never been scraped and shudder at the thought.
 
Mr. Black said:
Good thing you don't have braces lol. On a serious note, maybe you could try practicing with a dildo or somehting of similar dimensions (smokey or some veggie) and try to emphasize curling your lips over. Perhaps watching yourself in a mirror might help you to see where the problem is. I personally have never been scraped and shudder at the thought.
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Hey Mr. Black,

this isnt a veiled crack on you, but how big are you? He's like trying to suck a cucumber so avoid toothage is pretty hard.
 
anya said:


Hey Mr. Black,

this isnt a veiled crack on you, but how big are you? He's like trying to suck a cucumber so avoid toothage is pretty hard.
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I am 8"x6". If his dimensions are similar to a cuke, than off to the grocery store you go:)
 
Mr. Black said:


I am 8"x6". If his dimensions are similar to a cuke, than off to the grocery store you go:)
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so there have been women (you're straight right?) who've been able to suck that without scraping you? I just pulled out a ruler and meaured a piece of paper then curled the paper over and six inches around looks real close to his size.

Have the women you've been with try to suck hard on the downstroke? I think that's where I'm having problems. Seems like its hard to suck hard while going down and keep the teeth off at the same time.
 
Yes I am straight. If I have been scraped its been so minor that I do not remember. this is not to say that women havn't had problems giving me head either. Its taken my woman a good year of sucking before she's gotten adjusted to my size. Very few women have been able to succesfuly suck hard on the downstroke and/or deep throat me (oh sometimes I do miss her). Maybe this is where your problem lies, is he is as big as you say he is, maybe you need to concentrate on trying to open your mouth wider, that way you there will be more room to curl your lips around his shaft. Bigger the dick, harder it is to suck. Sometimes I envy the 6'x4'' 'ers.
 
Peel a banana and keep sucking til you don't leave any grooves in it. One that's not yet ripe so it won't break so easy.
(not that I would know anything about this, mind you)
 
just place the lips over the teeth like you are imitating an old person with no teeth, otherwise just stop them completely and he will stop complaining pretty quickly.
 
'So am I the only one or does anyone else have the same technique problem?'

haha, pencil sharpener...
 
Mr. Black said:
Wow I just saw Anya in her gallery. If that is indeed really her, she is fucking hot.
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Yes that's really me but bear in mind pics can lie. I picked those because they're flattering.



Damn I need some input from some other girls. :(
 
You know, cocksucking is just one of those natural abilities you are either born with or not.
 
anya said:


Yes that's really me but bear in mind pics can lie. I picked those because they're flattering.
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I'm not a girl but I definitely have some input for you.

:p
 
anya said:

Have the women you've been with try to suck hard on the downstroke? I think that's where I'm having problems. Seems like its hard to suck hard while going down and keep the teeth off at the same time.
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It aint happening... no way you are going to suck on the down stroke. Like everybody said, concentrate on keeping your lips over your teeth. and don't worry about sucking while you are moving...
 
^Big Rick Rock is right you can't suck on the way down , when you are down, try to swollow so that your throat will tighten up around the head of his cock , and when you come up cover your teath with your lips as you suck comming up
 
hmmm
guess like alot of these peeps are saying is it takes practice with proper techniques
if he still is not happy and still compare you to his ex's then perhaps he is not worth giving a bj to
you are you and need to be compared to shadows
 
Heh, never really thought about how complicated a BJ must be. All I know is my wife gives great ones, and her teeth never touch my penis.

I had a gf once who thought men liked it when a woman would grind her teeth across his penis. I quickly broke her of that habit, I find it hard to believe that some guys like that but I guess some do.
 
I've been looking at those free porn clips on the Internet and carefully eyeballing the BJ closeups and yeah it does look like most of the girls arent actually suctioning on the down. I found a really good one on frank wank. The guy's dingie is big and it's a close up, she definitely wasnt trying to suck while going down.

But I'm wondering if this is any good from the guy's end? I mean he's getting on and off suction. It's not consistent.
 
this makes me happy at my big not huge penis.... i never have this problem. but im a very happy 7 1/2 incher
 
anya said:
I've been looking at those free porn clips on the Internet and carefully eyeballing the BJ closeups and yeah it does look like most of the girls arent actually suctioning on the down. I found a really good one on frank wank. The guy's dingie is big and it's a close up, she definitely wasnt trying to suck while going down.

But I'm wondering if this is any good from the guy's end? I mean he's getting on and off suction. It's not consistent.
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lol
please
any guy with a gal willing to shine his knob is not going to complain if you don't suck on the downstroke
just being in should please him
if he doesn't like it
then without for a week or ten and see what he says then
better yet
withhold sex for a week and see what he says
and is he any good at licking you? if he even does?
lol
 
alot of it has to do with the size of the womens mouth, if you have a large penis like me...8.5 x6" ...its damn hard to get a good hummer unless the girl just has a big mouth.:blow:
 
Just french kiss it. Just slide ur tongue out and put him as far in ur mouth as u can. When you hear him moan..u will know that the back of ur throat is a good place to be. I actually love it when he holds my head and moves his hips some. That way, I know how far down he likes it....unless i start feeling him in my bellybutton. Now, thats too far.
 
anya said:
I've noticed I have a pretty tough time keeping my teeth of it on the down stroke but no problem when pulling back off it. My bf flips if I hit him with any teeth so I have to totally avoid it if possible. This is becoming a serious source of contention with us because he says other women dont have this problem and insists there's something I'm doing wrong.

So am I the only one or does anyone else have the same technique problem?
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He sounds like a picky person. One shouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth. Wait a minute, bad cliche...

One shouldn't bite the hand that feeds?
 
I hear what the men are saying about withholding the oral until he appreciates it more but what you guys are missing is that there's some self esteem issues involved here too.

For me, and I'm betting for a lot of other women too, it's a boost to our egos to know we can get a guy off. Makes us (me at least) feel sexier. You have to realize that penetration doesnt involve a lot of skill for us....we just provide the pussy. However, getting you off with our mouths is all about skill. Its something we're actively doing to make it happen and its a blow (no pun) to the ego to be criticized and be told you dont have the skills.

But I've already stopped trying to suck on the downstroke like was mentioned. I appreciate the input. :) :)
 
The sad part anya is that I have to agree with Tuc....I try tp put my lips over my teeth......

Now the question is...how does he know this
 
here's the solution for you honey. open your mouth WAY big (like a dog that yawns) before you go down. You'll get further down and you won't hit your teeth. Don't concertrate too much on your lips, you don't need them to "surround" a dick.

I should charge for that one.
 
You can suck on the down stroke just have to make sure you keep your lips curled over your teeth. As for practicing on a fruit or vegiee no fun in that. Best bet is to practice on your bf more than sure he will not mind.
 
Darlin' you are tryin waaaaaaaaay too hard. Listen.... Be extremely gentle. Tease him... Don't worry so much about suction. Lick up and down, tickle the balls - NEVER IGNORE THE BALLS! And use your hands while sucking.... When you go down, don't suck - it isn't necessary. There is a lot to be said for being gentle with your mouth.

Think of it like this - when he is giving you oral is it a "substitute" for cock? No. So then when you give him oral, your mouth is not "substitute" for pussy.

Slow and smooth, gentle with the mouth and lips and tongue, as it becomes more intense use your hands and don't even try to suck with your mouth but rather concentrate on just providing someplace warm and moist for the penis.

And for heaven's sake.... SWALLOW!!!! LOL

And remember, there is no substitute for "surprise morning, come in your mouth blowjobs".

Trust me darlin'... I give pornstar head. ;)

Though it has been a very long time since I have met anyone that I have wanted to even take my clothing off for, let alone want to please in this fashion. :(
 
bikinimom said:
Slow and smooth, gentle with the mouth and lips and tongue, as it becomes more intense use your hands and don't even try to suck with your mouth but rather concentrate on just providing someplace warm and moist for the penis.

And for heaven's sake.... SWALLOW!!!! LOL

And remember, there is no substitute for "surprise morning, come in your mouth blowjobs".
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:rasta:
 
what bikinimom sayd. although her advice may only go for uncircumsized guys.... cut peckers seem to need some serious jackhammering to get off on oral. if you try to suck on the way down, leave that... makes it unnecessarily hard, i dont even think its better that way
 
Words of wisdom by BikiniMom

Trust me darlin'... I give pornstar head. ;)
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there's my new signature! LOL

but really dough....balls kind of wig me out unless they're firm like when the scrotum contracts and they're tight. When even then....you have to admit they're not the most attractive things. He doesnt like gentle though, he wants hard sucking.

I've got the swallow thing covered, no problem there. :devil:
 
LOL... seriously, if you use your hands to kind of whack him off while you are on the top as the intensity builds it will be more than enough.

Balls are kind of neat... you ever watch them move around to adjust to temperature. It is really cool.

There is no part of a man's body (or a woman's) that wierds me out. We are amazing creations of the universe. Our bodies are a gift that we can share with another consenting adult. Of course, when I was younger I was more inbibited without even realizing it. Once you honestly consider how neat it is to have another person surrender his/her body to you so that you can freely explore it, there is amost no end to the possibilities.

:D
 
bikinimom said:


Balls are kind of neat... you ever watch them move around to adjust to temperature. It is really cool.
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I know!! Its like they're alive. Yuggh.


I'm actually more inhibited than I used to be. When I was in HS I was thoroughly off the chain. Way way off. Now its like I wig when I think of everything I used to do.



But I think its related to the fact that its real difficult for me to just plain fuck when its someone I really know well and am really emotionally involved with.
I used to be able to straight up get my full nasty on with guys I knew a minute but now....I dont know.....its weird.
My bf and I have been together for a while now and I cant fuck him anymore.
We used to do wild ass stuff but not now.
 
anya said:


I know!! Its like they're alive. Yuggh.

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LOL, I've never heard women talk about the male "freeze and thaw phenomenon". Dicks do the same thing when flacid. Get us in cold water and we look like 8 year olds down there.

As far as the BJ, I don't think suction on the down stroke is a requirement. Just feeling a warm mouth around it is enough. Also, the right amount of hand stroking helps.
 
I appreciate girls that are aware enough to hand stroke the part they can't fit in their mouth. All I need to cum is that up and down tongue pressure on the underside of the head. The visual of being deepthroated is very nice but I've only had person do it so far.
 
Dial_tone said:
Peel a banana and keep sucking til you don't leave any grooves in it. One that's not yet ripe so it won't break so easy.
(not that I would know anything about this, mind you)
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Someones had practice.:D
 
i like a little teeth sometimes. every now and then ill have my gf bite on my shaft real hard and it freaks her out. she thinks shes going to bite it off..lol guys, have your woman try it. it really doesnt hurt. tell her to bite easy, then get harder. you will be amazed how much you can take without it hurting.:mix:
 
sometimes you cant help accidentally hitting his penis with ur teeeth all u can say is sorry and suck on
 
Never, ever, ever STOP and say sorry. Just keep on keepin' on, and apologize after the act is complete!

Oh, and if you suck a mans cock. Never apologize. He don't like it show him to the door.
 
Dial_tone said:
Peel a banana and keep sucking til you don't leave any grooves in it. One that's not yet ripe so it won't break so easy.
(not that I would know anything about this, mind you)
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Dial; My big hunk of a man ;)

How would you know this?

This is a trade secret between all girls when you learn how
to do this.
:D
 
What's it worth to ya?

;)
 
I already know how I know, so it's not worth anything. LOL
 
Man, you sure give up easy. LOL
 
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