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Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi
I mean take into consideration this, the girl has OCD issues and absolutely hates when someone ignores her. It could be because her Ex hasn't responded to her happy v day email or their dog email and she's just losing her mind over to see why someone who she considered her friend and a fiance for 7 years just completely ignores her shit. Generally in their relationship when he would ignore her for days, would be when he was cheating and I think shes just desperetly trying to confirm it... this is the type of issues that i'm talking about when I say she cant let go of the past...
this was written by a doctor who developed a habit of peaking into his neighbors window..
"This only served to increase my anxiety, as I became desperate to have him and his wife understand that I was not some dangerous stalker, rather someone who was dealing with an acute anxiety disorder.
Keep in mind that OCD is a clinical syndrome/illness like depression. It's not something that you ask for or that you can control on your own. I think, in fact, that it's one of the most misunderstood diagnoses out there. People with OCD by definition have overdeveloped consciences and are typically concerned to the extreme with not hurting others (emotionally and certainly not physically). They tend to be intelligent, sensitive, and caring people who typically put the feelings of others before their own.
Unfortunately, the stalking-like behavior that may accompany this type of OCD usually leads those who come into contact with sufferers to fear that they are "bad" people, either (1) personality disordered or (2) delusional/psychotic. Niether of these conditions has anything at all to do with OCD. Therefore, OCD sufferers are often treated with a great deal of hostility.
I should also have added that the harrassment which occurs during the course of OCD is unintentional on the suffer's part. Therefore, by definition, it's not actually stalking. The anxiety can get so extreme that people can become blinded to the needs and boundaries of others. Oftentimes, people report that it's like waking up from a bad nightmare to find that you've emotionally harmed people while you were ill.
I'd also like to say that if you have this type of OCD, or any type for that matter, I would strongly recommend that you seek out a competent therapist and a psychiatrist for a medication evaluation."
I mean it's fitting
I mean take into consideration this, the girl has OCD issues and absolutely hates when someone ignores her. It could be because her Ex hasn't responded to her happy v day email or their dog email and she's just losing her mind over to see why someone who she considered her friend and a fiance for 7 years just completely ignores her shit. Generally in their relationship when he would ignore her for days, would be when he was cheating and I think shes just desperetly trying to confirm it... this is the type of issues that i'm talking about when I say she cant let go of the past...
this was written by a doctor who developed a habit of peaking into his neighbors window..
"This only served to increase my anxiety, as I became desperate to have him and his wife understand that I was not some dangerous stalker, rather someone who was dealing with an acute anxiety disorder.
Keep in mind that OCD is a clinical syndrome/illness like depression. It's not something that you ask for or that you can control on your own. I think, in fact, that it's one of the most misunderstood diagnoses out there. People with OCD by definition have overdeveloped consciences and are typically concerned to the extreme with not hurting others (emotionally and certainly not physically). They tend to be intelligent, sensitive, and caring people who typically put the feelings of others before their own.
Unfortunately, the stalking-like behavior that may accompany this type of OCD usually leads those who come into contact with sufferers to fear that they are "bad" people, either (1) personality disordered or (2) delusional/psychotic. Niether of these conditions has anything at all to do with OCD. Therefore, OCD sufferers are often treated with a great deal of hostility.
I should also have added that the harrassment which occurs during the course of OCD is unintentional on the suffer's part. Therefore, by definition, it's not actually stalking. The anxiety can get so extreme that people can become blinded to the needs and boundaries of others. Oftentimes, people report that it's like waking up from a bad nightmare to find that you've emotionally harmed people while you were ill.
I'd also like to say that if you have this type of OCD, or any type for that matter, I would strongly recommend that you seek out a competent therapist and a psychiatrist for a medication evaluation."
I mean it's fitting
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