Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advice!

[deco]

Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Yeh she's cheating on you or has and is guilty about it so she checks up on you. Guilty conscience. Now all women are kinda stalkers to an extent because they're nosey. Mine is but she doesn't hide our stuff like this girl is doing. Sounds like she's trying to play the field in case something else comes along. How long have y'all been dating?

there's no cheating, i mean for as crazy as it sounds, we are together almost all the time and txt without a minute going by when we're not together. She would send her ex an occasional email with a picture of a dog she now has from when they got it together. he wouldnt even respond back besides an occasional happy new years or happy birthday email. He's blocked her cell phone and she wouldnt even be able to call the guy.. I mean the guy did get blindseded when she left him after 7 years so I can see why he would want anything to do with her..

it's not cheating, i mean these fights could lead to cheating down the road beause i feel like shes that kind of an insecure person who would just smooth her way into another relationship without ever actually being single. As of right now though, not chance of cheating..

 

[cindylou]

Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

No! She shouldnt have people's email and shop logins. No. I think it's too late though, now. She probably has hacked into your email account too. Delete it.

OCD does not cause someone to stalk either.

 

[SpyWizard]

Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

first id go change all my user names/passwords, the most important being your home computer..

a key fob password combo would be the best choice..

 

[overgreen]

Sounds like she's just fucked up because of her ex. Stick it out with her. She sounds like a cool chick, with shitty self-esteem. Give her a chance dude. If she's not cheating on you or lying to you then I'd keep her. She insecure because of her past, have a chat with her and boost her self image because that's the problem.

I second this too! If she's a good girl just tell her to trust you and relax that stalker mess. Leave the past along. Just make her feel better about y'all. How long have y'all been together? I also would change my passwords to something she can't figure out and see what happens. See if she asks or try's to figure it out. Then call her out on trusting you.

 

[motorcyclegiant]

read your post bro? seriously? you already know the answer...whatever happens now is on you
(not trying to be a dick, but seriously)

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[deco]

Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Sounds like she's just fucked up because of her ex. Stick it out with her. She sounds like a cool chick, with shitty self-esteem. Give her a chance dude. If she's not cheating on you or lying to you then I'd keep her. She insecure because of her past, have a chat with her and boost her self image because that's the problem.

that's my theory but when i was going in this relationship i had a completely different image of her, I thought she's strong, independent, amazing looking but then all these preexiting conditions start popping up that I didnt sign up for and now I see her as a weak link, someone i can barely even trust. I mean, literally the girl was the inspiration behind my motivation. I thought she was hard to get because she's everything that I described earlier but it turns out she was hard to get because she could fall back on her ex... I ended up changing in a good way, my lifes become better since she came into my life, She's helped me get healthier, cooks and cleans and everything else in between but all this makes me look at her some weak malicious unworthy girl who's just going to ruin her as well my life just cause she cant close the old chapter in the book. I mean she takes it to another level to hang on to all her past which she says was everything that she didnt want and a lesson as to what she did want out of life.. It's just that now, her words dont mean shit to me..

 

[deco]

Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

I mean I guess what I really want your guy's opinion is, would you confront her and try to hear her side or just write her off as crazy and break up without giving her the true reason...

 

[deco]

Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

I bet she's really good in bed?
Isn't she?

well, yea.

 

[WoodyO]

Re: Aright so my GF is a stalker. I'm officially creeped out...Need some serious advi

Here's what I'd do if I were you:

wait til she falls asleep, then punch her in the eye and choke that bitch out.

 

[Anabolic chest]

I mean I guess what I really want your guy's opinion is, would you confront her and try to hear her side or just write her off as crazy and break up without giving her the true reason...

Come on bro dont be so fucking stupid. If you love her like you say you do of course you should 'confront' her and see what she says.

Ill say this though, the really worrying thing, to me at least is she is trying to keep your relationship a secret from her ex, almost as if she wants him back so she wants him to think shes available.
Talk to her, if you dont like what she has to say, move on