Couldnt of said it better myself. I dont see the big controversy. I am natural but can you really consider me natural when I use over the counter supplements which I do not use all that much of but still use them. I lift with two others for legs shoulders and back during the week they are 3 cycle a year guys. We get along just fine and I keep up with them on all lifts especially shoulders. If you would put in the pound for pound equation I am stronger on most lifts. The difference is I pay far more attention to my diet and sleep habits than they do. Now I know one freak who is just as attentive as I am to those two factors and uses gear. He is a complete monster. Do I hold it against him no. He does it by his own free will and does it the right way. Just cause I dont use he doesnt give me shit why should I give him shit for using. As a matter a fact he often asks my advice and gives me praise.
I have seen gear users that treat smaller guys like shit which is wrong. I have also seen natural guys treat smaller guys like shit which is still wrong. The point being to each his own and treat each other with respect in the gym. There is always someone bigger and stronger that may just walk in your gym and treat you like shit if you treat others that way and that is true Karma.