Are you metrosexual? And if you are...

[Underwraps]

I think you've approached it from the wrong angle. Men that I think of that are "metrosexual" (which I prefer over non-metrosexual) are very handsome, charismatic, good with the ladies. Metrosexual and gay are not synonyms.

If you had said - do you think he's gay because he doesn't want to have sex but he's X and X and Y? - that might've made a little more sense. Picking on a fashionable (and passionate?) sexy man that isn't here to defend himself...

well, that's gAE?

There are really 3 parts to this topic.
1- How I read into a gayish/metrosexual profile. He had to go back to the mall btw to get a $70 pair of jeans he liked at Banana Republic- missed that one. Yes, he's not here to defend himself.
2- My joke was just a joke and she's taking it too seriously.
3- Why is HE offended? That's gay.

 

[Rachel...lol]

There are really 3 parts to this topic.
1- How I read into a gayish/metrosexual profile. He had to go back to the mall btw to get a $70 pair of jeans he liked at Banana Republic- missed that one. Yes, he's not here to defend himself.
2- My joke was just a joke and she's taking it too seriously.
3- Why is HE offended? That's gay.

I'm just one for logic - and picking a random person to talk about with a poorly structure/supported argument for a thread - well; you post in C & C you expect to get shit right?

By the way - using "that's gay" as a rebuttal is also not a strategic way to support your counter

 

[Rachel...lol]

Looking forward to it chickie

 

[cindylou]

posting just to subscribe - I'll answer 2morow. cant rite now

 

[nimbus]

he doesn't seem metrosexual; he seems like either a closet gay or a serial killer

 

[PICK3]

I usually don't render an opinion of a dude being gay based on obsessive personal hygiene practices or his sense of style

Having frayed pillow ends may however influence my judgment

just sayin'

 

[Underwraps]

I usually don't render an opinion of a dude being gay based on obsessive personal hygiene practices or his sense of style

Having frayed pillow ends may however influence my judgment

just sayin'

Frayed pillow ends? What's that? Biting at the pillow out of sexual frustration till it's frayed? Can't get a visual. S plain?

Rachel, I merely used your phrasing that my chatting about a guy who can't defend himself is "gay?". Oh, I always find it amusing that only certain people are called on for talking about people who aren't here to defend themselves. Kinda fickle isn't it everyone? Yes, we can't always talke about MEMEME or YOUYOUYOU. It's more interesting to talk about other people in the soup. And, it's not really about HIM anyway. I conceded that he's not neccessarily gay. It was just a shoot from the hip knee jerk comment made like many people would make over that kind of profile: A perfect specifimen of a man who is still single. So, cynical people say Ah! Must be gay! Or, in his case, careful and picky. It was just a jooooke! She's made inappropriate comments in front of my CHILDREN and she's calling ME inappropriate. And, I'm not there to defend myself to HIM. For all I know she said "She thinks' your gay." So, her semantics could have really tarnished my side in his eyes. It's a fair game. I can't defend myself to him and he nor she can't here.

Back to the root questions. Who here is metrosexual and get's bent out of shape if you're teased about being gay?

 

[nangiggles]

gay, bi homo, hetero, metro, ubber.... so many labels... jeez....

 

[cryptosporidium]

last time i checked, there arent many hipsters on this site.

 

[-SD-]

Really? Who agrees with Dave?

Looks like a lot of people here do lol.

I stand by my original statement.