he weighs about 160 low bf so he thinks he is big. one of them was benching next to me last week. im not a monster so i hope i am coming off ok. but im in the top 10% strength wise. my bf is high though 20%. been on the keto diet for 3 months. since then my bw has gone from a loose 235 to a tightining 210. bench from 135 for reps to 275 for 3 sets 5 reps. in 6 weeks!!!!! im there to work, and be friendly. if the person is working hard also. if he is an idiot, i ignore him/her.