me and my brother use to work abs like crazy!! I'm more into the powrelifting aspect now and still have abs but not like my brother. I still work my abs but nothing like my brother does. He will do between 400 to 500 crunches a night every night. He pulls his shirt up and its nothing but abs. I on the other hand have to flex to see them. I'm Skinny as hell but nothing as skinny as my brother. If I were you I would probably want to have the abs, girls love them and most don't care how much you can bench!! Just a Thought