Its been my experience that most women lke hit hard and a little rough most of the time, but most seem to like alot of foreplay leading up to it. So soft and gentle up front to turn her on, but once you do start fucking, go deep, hard and fast.
However, on occasion though, all seem to like slow and and gentle, but far less often.
...and yes before someone chimes in we know there are exceptoins to every rule when it comes to anything involving people.