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EarthRider
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nan if you slept with another guy do you think he would care?
Yo nan, so is your hubby horny now?
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I really don't think he would as long as I'm careful about it...
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EarthRider
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this is true nan. i don't think you sleeping with other men is the answer, i am just trying to figure out your hubby. He just seems a lil off. i'd cut the nutz off a dude that would try ot have sexuals with my wife. I wouldn't take it personal.
1. You're not doing ANYTHING wrong, short of not bitch slapping this turd on the daily.This is true too, who knows what I may be doing wrong, some things I know some things he doesnt like and I'm working on them, they're not bedroom related but maybe it spills over, who knowsmaybe he feels I'm needy or bitchy, men like the chase and not only do I not get chased but I kinda throw myself at him, maybe that puts him off, but I've tried the laying low approach and that doesnt work either, last time I allowed him to "chase" me was 3 months without sex
I know I'm sloppy with stuff around the house and I need to lose weight, now that I'm at home without a job I'm working on those things, it's kind of a struggle since we're both the same but I need to break the cycle of bad eating habits and apathy over everyday chores, I need to lose like 50 pounds, he needs to lose like 70 or more, it's hard to care about your figure when no one gives a fuck about how you look or what you do, when we first started having this issue I was super thin and it persisted, but now I gotta do things for me, since I've been home we've had all home made meals, no junk food outside, not even the weekends or nights
2. Your weight doesn't have a thing to do with it.
3. If I had steady nookie 14" away every night even if she weighed 300lbs I'd still be all "hey about a bj?".
4. I had low T myself a few times and even though I didn't want sex I still wanted to want to have sex.
you don't know dick
I think he is over whelmed with the whole issue. Some men start to feel like less of a man when things aren't going right. Those men that claim different are just bullshiters. I'm sure he is still into you, so let him feel like he is still the man in the bed. Maybe walk around with just a tee shirt with nothing else. Of course take a shower and smell good while you walk around him. Let him go for you and don't push up on him. Let him take control on his own. Then make sure you reinforce how he is the man. Maybe this will take him out of his funk. My$.02
