Yo nan, so is your hubby horny now?

[EarthRider]

during her period, sick

i take five days off, wouldn't want that

 

[sterolizer]

during her period, sick

i take five days off, wouldn't want that

Since you're not boning her, she probably gets on some other guy who isn't afraid of a little blood, to rock her world.

And Nan, literally just rape your man whether he wants to or not.

 

[bigpokey]

ahahaha er would be that fgt

 

[nangiggles]

i denied my wife sex tonight, but she wants another kid

i told her i want a blow job and will withold myself til i get them

lmao, in a few minutes i'll prolly go have sex with my wife

that is a normal marriage nan, i'd have a serioius heart to heart

We've had the heart to heart convo many many times, gets us no where...

Uhh im no expert but if youre splitting hairs over who got a fucking hug, youre marriage has deeper problems than fucking.

Yeah, I know, every time I try to kiss or hug him it's like it's a fucking nuissance, cuz he thinks I'm just doing it to have sex, so even that kind of affection is limited, to the point that most of the times I have to ask to get a kiss or kiss him, doesnt even happen naturally that often anymore and even when I ask he acts like he's doing me a huge fucking favor which of course creates resentment... it's a mess.

fuck nan,I dont get this dude,Im sorry your dealing with this. Im dealing with a no sex wife too and I cant get anywhere. for over two years ive tried,only got laid once

Fuck that sucks oak, sorry to hear that we've gone for 3-4 months tops, never a year thankfully, ivillage has a mismatched libido board if you feel like talking, it gets depressing though

nan, sounds like life is pretty tough in a number of ways. i hope you can take the steps needed to improve your situation. it's really hard, but otherwise you will remain stuck.

figure out what you haven't tried, then try it. he has to try with you, or it's no good. if so, find out sooner rather than later, then gtfo.

also, make sure he doesn't have a vomit or deuce fetish.

thank you.

Yeah life pretty much sucks in almost every aspect for me right now but I'm still holding on to my sanity. He knows I'm open to almost anything, I've talked to him about it, having fantasies, dress up, role playing, etc it's almost like he's asexual, NOTHING interests him, there's nothing I can recall that will turn him on, I know he loves Angelina Jolie and Leah Michelle and even when he sees them I never see him sporting wood, he barely sports wood randomly in the mornings, almost never, the low T doesnt help this whole thing

wtf

why??


Sex during "that" time of the month ROCKS!!!


and Nan..Don't ever turn him away, he'll find another way to get off for sure.

I never turn him down because I never know when that window will open again, last time I wasnt even in the mood but went and took some advil, foreplayed while they kicked in and then proceeded

woa


what is it that he wants?

Did it start after you guys moved here?

It's gotten worse with years gone by but he's always had low libido, we met and moved in really fast, I noticed it a couple of months into living together

Since you're not boning her, she probably gets on some other guy who isn't afraid of a little blood, to rock her world.

And Nan, literally just rape your man whether he wants to or not.

Lol at my 5'1" ass subduing his 6'1" ass

So in a nutshell for those of you who took the time to read this, yes something is wrong, a combination of things, the fact that his T is half of the lowest values in men, his overweight, my overweight, the frustration and resentment that has happened do to this, our shitty salaries and current life, lots of things play a factor here, I've talked to him about this and he just doesnt have a reason, he claims this is just the way he is and he says he just doesnt get that urge that often... he gets upset when I tell him it's not normal and claims not everyone is the same I'm way past trying to figure him out.

 

[*ebony*]

We've had the heart to heart convo many many times, gets us no where...


Yeah, I know, every time I try to kiss or hug him it's like it's a fucking nuissance, cuz he thinks I'm just doing it to have sex, so even that kind of affection is limited, to the point that most of the times I have to ask to get a kiss or kiss him, doesnt even happen naturally that often anymore and even when I ask he acts like he's doing me a huge fucking favor which of course creates resentment... it's a mess.


Fuck that sucks oak, sorry to hear that we've gone for 3-4 months tops, never a year thankfully, ivillage has a mismatched libido board if you feel like talking, it gets depressing though


Yeah life pretty much sucks in almost every aspect for me right now but I'm still holding on to my sanity. He knows I'm open to almost anything, I've talked to him about it, having fantasies, dress up, role playing, etc it's almost like he's asexual, NOTHING interests him, there's nothing I can recall that will turn him on, I know he loves Angelina Jolie and Leah Michelle and even when he sees them I never see him sporting wood, he barely sports wood randomly in the mornings, almost never, the low T doesnt help this whole thing


I never turn him down because I never know when that window will open again, last time I wasnt even in the mood but went and took some advil, foreplayed while they kicked in and then proceeded


It's gotten worse with years gone by but he's always had low libido, we met and moved in really fast, I noticed it a couple of months into living together


Lol at my 5'1" ass subduing his 6'1" ass

So in a nutshell for those of you who took the time to read this, yes something is wrong, a combination of things, the fact that his T is half of the lowest values in men, his overweight, my overweight, the frustration and resentment that has happened do to this, our shitty salaries and current life, lots of things play a factor here, I've talked to him about this and he just doesnt have a reason, he claims this is just the way he is and he says he just doesnt get that urge that often... he gets upset when I tell him it's not normal and claims not everyone is the same I'm way past trying to figure him out.

damn nan. hang in there with the job situation.

i'd be pissed with hubby situation. you seem like your trying so hard and he just resigned to his situation. he knows your unhappy and he tells you that "thats the way it is". So basically he's telling you there wont be many changes in the future. I mean he doesn't even seem concerned enough to find ways to fix his problems, even you are the one that going around searching and scheduling appointments with docs. you got him in the country, working to support the family, trying to make relationship work. Of course this is a one sided story but still its hard not to be on your side. I know you said your not ready to let go, but do you truly believe that you can be happy with him?

What do you mean he is overwieght? like obese? then diet and exercise will help with the whole low T problem.

 

[nangiggles]

damn nan. hang in there with the job situation.

i'd be pissed with hubby situation. you seem like your trying so hard and he just resigned to his situation. he knows your unhappy and he tells you that "thats the way it is". So basically he's telling you there wont be many changes in the future. I mean he doesn't even seem concerned enough to find ways to fix his problems, even you are the one that going around searching and scheduling appointments with docs. you got him in the country, working to support the family, trying to make relationship work. Of course this is a one sided story but still its hard not to be on your side. I know you said your not ready to let go, but do you truly believe that you can be happy with him?

What do you mean he is overwieght? like obese? then diet and exercise will help with the whole low T problem.

This is true too, who knows what I may be doing wrong, some things I know some things he doesnt like and I'm working on them, they're not bedroom related but maybe it spills over, who knows maybe he feels I'm needy or bitchy, men like the chase and not only do I not get chased but I kinda throw myself at him, maybe that puts him off, but I've tried the laying low approach and that doesnt work either, last time I allowed him to "chase" me was 3 months without sex

I know I'm sloppy with stuff around the house and I need to lose weight, now that I'm at home without a job I'm working on those things, it's kind of a struggle since we're both the same but I need to break the cycle of bad eating habits and apathy over everyday chores, I need to lose like 50 pounds, he needs to lose like 70 or more, it's hard to care about your figure when no one gives a fuck about how you look or what you do, when we first started having this issue I was super thin and it persisted, but now I gotta do things for me, since I've been home we've had all home made meals, no junk food outside, not even the weekends or nights

 

[brownbrown]

This is true too, who knows what I may be doing wrong, some things I know some things he doesnt like and I'm working on them, they're not bedroom related but maybe it spills over, who knows maybe he feels I'm needy or bitchy, men like the chase and not only do I not get chased but I kinda throw myself at him, maybe that puts him off, but I've tried the laying low approach and that doesnt work either, last time I allowed him to "chase" me was 3 months without sex

I know I'm sloppy with stuff around the house and I need to lose weight, now that I'm at home without a job I'm working on those things, it's kind of a struggle since we're both the same but I need to break the cycle of bad eating habits and apathy over everyday chores, I need to lose like 50 pounds, he needs to lose like 70 or more, it's hard to care about your figure when no one gives a fuck about how you look or what you do, when we first started having this issue I was super thin and it persisted, but now I gotta do things for me, since I've been home we've had all home made meals, no junk food outside, not even the weekends or nights

Youre not doing anything wrong Niggoggles.

Member that time you said I could put it in your Butt? Ahhhhh... good times..

 

[EarthRider]

sorry nan

i hope you guys can figure things out. him being overweight sure is not helping either.

on a serious note, are you sure he's not a mo. and he is wrong it is not normal to not want sex. i have yet to meet a guy that doesn't think about sex most of the day.

This is true too, who knows what I may be doing wrong, some things I know some things he doesnt like and I'm working on them, they're not bedroom related but maybe it spills over, who knows maybe he feels I'm needy or bitchy, men like the chase and not only do I not get chased but I kinda throw myself at him, maybe that puts him off, but I've tried the laying low approach and that doesnt work either, last time I allowed him to "chase" me was 3 months without sex

I know I'm sloppy with stuff around the house and I need to lose weight, now that I'm at home without a job I'm working on those things, it's kind of a struggle since we're both the same but I need to break the cycle of bad eating habits and apathy over everyday chores, I need to lose like 50 pounds, he needs to lose like 70 or more, it's hard to care about your figure when no one gives a fuck about how you look or what you do, when we first started having this issue I was super thin and it persisted, but now I gotta do things for me, since I've been home we've had all home made meals, no junk food outside, not even the weekends or nights

 

[nangiggles]

sorry nan

i hope you guys can figure things out. him being overweight sure is not helping either.

on a serious note, are you sure he's not a mo. and he is wrong it is not normal to not want sex. i have yet to meet a guy that doesn't think about sex most of the day.

I have seriously contemplated him being gay, not only does he not meet your good old fashioned stereotypes but also he doesnt have either an overly supportive or repulsion towards the gay community, I've never caught him checking a guy out, he likes girl on girl porn, he does not like ass play with his ass, he's not even very into anal... it kinda doesnt fit the profile

 

[EarthRider]

if he likes porn, cant you guys just watch porn everyday to turn him on. something just isn't right. my wife just has to walk by and i am thinking about sex. this is how most men are